Hello, thank you for your concern.From what you've described, it sounds like you're spending a lot of time mentally replaying the past and imagining how things could have been different. This is called rumination. While it may feel like you're trying to solve the problem, it often keeps you stuck, increases anxiety, lowers mood, and makes it harder to focus on the present.
Next Steps
Notice when you are replaying the past and gently ask yourself: "Is this helping me solve the problem, or am I going in circles?"
Focus on what is within your control today rather than what cannot be changed.
Set aside a fixed 15–20 minutes of 'worry time' each day. If worries arise outside that time, note them down and return to the present task.
Health Tips
I recommend booking a therapy consultation with a psychiatrist or psychologist. Therapy provides evidence-based strategies to reduce rumination, improve concentration, and help you regain control over your thoughts and daily functioning