Hi.... All the symptoms you have mentioned are sign of an underlying condition (Depression).
This may also be just because you are trying to overcome your abusive and tormenting past. Also, because the present is also equally challenging.
We tend to start re-thinking about out past, especially relationship wise, when we are encountered with challenging odds in the present.
This does not mean we want to go back to our past or we are regretting our choices in the past. It only means that our mind is reassessing our present environment based on our past experiences in the similar environment.
This is how our mind works, nothing else.
Next Steps
Seek professional help.
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