Hi there, I understand your situation.... It's sad to know your dad is in an affair of ur age girl.... It's a terrible feeling to go through... Your mom will be devasted if she knew... Your dad is trying to live his younger days I guess... Sometimes as age advances our maturity level also should advance but, I think your father does not want to grow up.... Don't worry... We can sort this out together... Take help of a psychologist have one or two session and see it to yourself whether it's helpful to you... Attraction happens.... No age counts here... Let's discuss further the pros n cons of your situation n do which ever is best for you... Thank you...

I am glad you decided to share this with a mental health expert. I understand what you are going through when we trust someone blindly and see that person not being able to live to our expectations we experience anger, anxiety, sadness and so many mixed emotions. I know you need an answer from your father for so many questions going on in your mind right now. Its also because we look at our parents as God or as people who can never go wrong in life but if we look at them as general human beings who can make mistakes atleast our lives will become easier. I am in no way defending your father but i would want to help you cope better with this situation.

Hi.. thank you for sharing your concern. At this point of time, the best way to deal with your stress will be to consult a psychological counselor or a psychologist, who will listen to you and suggest you the best ways to handle your stress. Just remember that what you are feeling is very genuine and anybody will feel the same way just like how you are feeling. You will definitely get out of it. All the very best

Hi! Our parents are always our ideal. Sometimes their choices contradict the image we have. I can imagine the confusion and the trust issues you might be dealing with. There is no justification to some actions.

What is bothering you, that your father cheated your MOM, or that he is with a girl of your age. I think it is both. Still, there is a lot of anger and frustration which is affecting your studies and focus on you studies. It is better to work with yourself தான் in trying to talk about this to your family members.

Hi We always treat our parents as God but forget to look at them as abhiman being. Situations like this break this image and it's not easy to digest. You must be going through trust issues and anger towards your father which is very normal, try to accept your feelings. Take help of psychologist to deal with this situation