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My husband cheated with my step daughter
I found a video yesterday they are having sex in that video.i found it red handedly, now he is saying he is not good for me.he wants to move out of my life.but I have a 6months old baby I am not able to understand what to do please help. I am getting sucididal thoughts also. He is cheating on my sister's daughter who is 18 years old by her consent it's not forced. I am not able to share this to anyone. I don't know what to do about myself n my daughter
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Glad u reached out. I can’t imagine what are going through. Sorry that u have to go grow all this. I would like to know if u have any support system? Any friends / family ? Whom u can trust.
This is a time when u could use the support n company of someone to talk to. Your husband has definitely broken ur trust . And this may not be negotiable to u. But this is a time when ur baby needs ur consistent love n attention too.
I know this is difficult for u. And u feel like there is no hope. Pls feel free to connect for a session.
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It is utterly upsetting and sad to feel the way you must be feeling.before you come to some conclusion wait and ask what exactly you want,are you in a situation to move on and all the practically reasons to stay or to end the relationship.
talk to your husband,is he apologetic? But do not indulge in blame game whatever has to happen has happened no point in talking about how and why.
If it was situational are you willing to forgive or are they still continuing,you haven't cleared the step daughter part. If it was not forceful even she is questionable.
If you are educated and working you will have an advantage of thinking independently. Please work towards that.
Rest think calmly and respond very patiently.
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if you cannot figure out what you should do reach out to professional help.
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Hi, Marriage life is based on both relationships and laws. Here in your situation your husband is not giving respect to either law or relationship.
Try to speak with him about the seriousness of the situation.
Don't blame yourself for his actions.
You have all the rights to have a peaceful life.
When you are overwhelmed with emotions you won be able to take right decision.
Take a break, think calmly, about the future plan
Once you are ready to talk, talk to him , convince him for marriage counseling
If he is not ready to change, still asking you to move out, it is better to hire a lawyer.
Instead of living in uncertainty and ruining your life ,you have to choose a way that is good for you and your baby.
Try not to think about the other people and the whole world.It is your life.
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Consult a psychologist as soon as possible
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Check yourself why you want to live with him.If it is only due to financial security,instead of living with him and undergoing all turmoil,it is better to hire a lawyer and fight for your rights.
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Talk to any relationship counsellor and get the right solution.....
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Dr. Seema Aggarwal (PhD)
Counselling Psychologist
11 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi..
It is highly disappointing. I understand what you are going through.. Please share your feelings with Psychologist. To resolve your inner conflict and to give meaning to your life, therapy will help.
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Book a session with Counseling Psychologist
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When life give such challenge, we have to give it back.
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Ms. Mohana Priya G
Counselling Psychologist
8 yrs exp
Bangalore
Consult psychologist
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Ms. Manasi Tambe
Counselling Psychologist
2 yrs exp
Pune
Please consult a relationship counselor. Call manntalks helpline
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
It is very unfortunate to go through in your life..
As there are a lot more sensitive situations a d issues, and I suggest that you consult with a psychological Counselor personally either online or Offline, to get a clarity and understanding about yourself and about your future life..
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Ms. Smriti
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
First you have to ask yourself whether you want to forgive him or you want to move out...The life you have built together comes crashing down when you realize that your husband might be or is, in fact, unfaithful. Your mind may be clouded with so many questions about the past, the future, the state of your relationships and the uncertainty of it all. Endless questions may swarm your mind. How to deal with a cheating husband? What to say to your cheating husband? How to deal with the pain of a cheating husband? And most importantly, what should be your course of action in the wake of his infidelity?
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The question of whether you should just ignore your cheating husband and move on or stay with someone who cheated on you is perhaps the most daunting of them all. Even though walking away from a cheating spouse may be your first instinct, breaking up a marriage isn’t always easy. But if you choose to stay, will it only encourage him to stray even further?
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By now, you know that he cheated on you but do not understand why or how to deal with a cheating husband. This is the time to give your marriage some help. Do not shy away from consulting a couple’s counselor and try to bring out everything that you have buried deep and work through your issues.
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