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Rude behaviour and non veg abuses by 10y
Rude behaviour and non veg abuses frequently done by 10-12 old boy since approx 6 months. Not interested in reading and writing,only interested in vurglar language and bad habits. How to remove the problem.
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It can be an ODD with anger management which might affect the behavior of the kid in such a way.
It needs to be treated asap otherwise it may get complicated.
It can be well treated in a holistic approach for complete recovery.
It can be well treated with counseling sessions and homeopathic medicine effectively and without any side effects.
You need an expert psychologist who is a good homeopathic physician.
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Rude behavior with bad language might just be an approach to assert independence at this age.
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Lay down mutual rules regarding no use policy of bad language.
Mutual rule setting yields good results because the child can tell you what he expects from you.
Help him understand what is your expectation of the right behavior
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Have you checked with his school, tuition batch and any other population he is attached with? Sometimes influence makes kid like this.
Try to talk to him and don't interrupt. Please try to be non judgemental.
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It sounds like the child’s recent behavior changes are causing concern, and it’s understandable to want to address them early. Children around this age may imitate language or behavior they see in media, peers, or online, and may act out due to emotional, social, or academic stress. Start by calmly discussing his behavior without anger, helping him understand what’s acceptable and why. Limit exposure to inappropriate content and encourage positive outlets like sports, hobbies, or group activities. Spending consistent, quality time with him and reinforcing good behavior with praise can help too. If this behavior persists or worsens, consulting a child psychologist can provide guidance to identify any underlying issues and build healthier habits.
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If behavior persists for more than a few months or worsens, consult a child psychologist. They can identify deeper causes associated with this
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Rude or abusive behavior in a 10-year-old often reflects underlying frustration, attention-seeking, or peer unfluence. Stay calm and set clear boundaries—firmly state that rude language is unacceptable while acknowledging their emotions. Avoid punishment; instead, use calm consequences and positive reinforcement for respectful behavior. Strengthen emotional connection by spending daily quality time and listening without judgment. To rekindle interest in studies, use short, engaging sessions, praise effort over results, and relate lessons to their interests. Check for stressors at school or online exposure to negative influences, and if the behavior persists, kindly consult a mental health professional
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Stay calm, don't match tone
Model respectful behaviour
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi... Please correct his psychosocial environment to bring change in his behavior. Kids usually express their emotions in the form of tantrums, anger, or rudeness. Part of it is acquired and some of it is innate. We as humans need to be taught to express and deal with our emotions. Typically we learn it through imitation of our role models, parents, siblings, peers, seniors, teachers, etc. through or social interaction. But in some cases a conflict may occur and a kid may need an adult intervention to help them correct their perception and dealing with their own emotions. Sitting along with your kid every day for half n hour everyday, listening to his irrational talks and daily experiences, etc. goes a long way than any expert opinion. Try modelling the behaviors you want your kid to imbibe.
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Parents/Child Counselling is required.
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Ms. Sahaj Kang
Psychologist
3 yrs exp
Delhi
Was he interested in reading and writing 6 months ago? What kind of bad habits and rude behaviour does he engage in, and when does he use the vulgar language? You say 6 months ago - what happened then? When you talk to him about this, how does he respond?
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Ms. Yashna David
Mental Health Counselor
10 yrs exp
Noida
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I have been working with children for the past 7 years. Please connect with me to consult about your child. You can check my profile on linkedin as well.
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Ms. Neha Sachdev
Psychologist
11 yrs exp
Delhi
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Peer pressure and social media has now affected the kids the most. They are to be monitored what content are they watching and what kind of social interaction they are engaged in.
It is an onset of teenage, hence a lot of emotional distress will occur. They are not able to cope/ manage emotions hence the anger and outbursts towards parents.
Consequences to be applied here.
Counselling with the child and parents are required for the healthy family
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Ms. Pooja Gupta
Counselling Psychologist
8 yrs exp
Delhi
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Dealing with a young boy exhibiting rude behavior, frequent use of abusive language, and disinterest in reading and writing requires a caring and structured approach. It's important to understand that such behavior may stem from various factors like peer influence, lack of proper guidance, or emotional challenges. First, establishing clear boundaries and consistent discipline is essential, emphasizing respectful communication. Engaging him in positive activities such as sports, hobbies, or creative pursuits can help redirect his energy and interests away from negative habits. Additionally, open communication and understanding his feelings or concerns can build trust and help address underlying issues. Seeking guidance from a child psychologist or counselor can be very beneficial, as they can identify root causes and provide tailored strategies to modify behavior and improve his attitude. Parental involvement, patience, and positive reinforcement are key; by setting a good example and offering support, you can help him develop better behavior, values, and social skills over time.
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