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Relationship issues
I am in a relationship for last 2 yrs. At the beginning everything was going great. I used to get much importance in his life. But slowly as I started becoming more giving in the relation, things changed. I became the least important person in his life. As if I just became an option to him. Compared me many times with his ex's saying they were better than me. He is not at all interested in resolving the issues or misunderstanding. If I discusse things with him, at the end things are moulded in such a way, I become the bad person. He is not even intrested in any commitment.
Because of this I am having issues in my professional and personal life. Loosing my confidence. Always thinking there is fault in me. My professional life is suffering. Lost an important project. Cannot sleep at night. 24x7 thinking about him even if I don't want to. I tried to divert my mind but nothing worked. I just really don't know how to get him off my mind. It's been months I couldn't sleep
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Ms. Delphina Esther
Counselling Psychologist
7 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hey, it sounds like you are going through a lot. Relationships by their very nature are continually changing. Oftentimes there are several influencing factors beyond the individuals in the relationship that can make it work- or not. Things like respect, communication and healthy boundaries play a very large role in making healthy relationships. At present, it seems as though these things are not being met for you, leading to its impact on the many aspects of your life.
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I would recommend that you visit a psychologist to help you process and understand your relationship a little better. It might be a good idea to explore boundary setting and the feelings that all this brings up for you.
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
I can understand the time, effort and the interest you have invested in this relationship..
Because of which you are caught up with him by expecting the same from him too.
Even if you feel that there are slightest of slight differences in his behaviour a d communication in him, it is not worth spending time and effort from your side in this relationship..
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For a detailed discussion and understanding you can reach me by using the link given below :-
https://prac.to/hema-sampath-psychologist-dir
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Ms. Ritika Matta
Counselling Psychologist
4 yrs exp
Hyderabad
Hi you can contact me for an appointment and we can explore this narrative together
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Ms. Chellam Narendiran
Psychologist
10 yrs exp
Coimbatore
Hi,
Do understand your feelings and the tough times you facing it. He clearly gave the indication that he is no more interested in continuing the relationship with you. You know the reality too. In a relationship both need to give and take. Either any one of you not interested then its going to be tough for the other person to make it happen. Its time for you to decide whether its worth to be in the relationship or not. Based on your decision you can take help from you family members or friends or professionals.
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Speak to him directly and get the answer as YES or NO to be in the relationship
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Speak to a psychologist and take help.
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