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Hello, I am in a relationship from 5-6 years. My bf is good and caring but sometimes he behaves like a selfish. Recently his sister is ill badly and we both taking care of her equally but today he told me that, I have did nothing for him. I feel he is taking me for Granted. On this words, I am hurt n shows him that m hurt. But he takes it very lightly and don't even give it a bit value. I don't know what he thinks of me. Please help me. What should I have to do?? I want him realize that he is nothing without me. But how I don't know. I want him to feel regret of what he said.
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Some times people talk impulsively words in that spur have no value, it appears ur under negative emotions, don't take any decision at this moment....write a diary about the pre incident, and incident in detail...it may help you to find out evidence..
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other wise meet mental health professional
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Ms. Apphia
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4 yrs exp
Mumbai
Hello,
You've been in a fairly long relationship with your boyfriend and there are probably many aspects of the relationship that you both could address and look into.
If his words have hurt, take your time to process which part hurt you most and why?
Secondly, adapt a calm and assertive manner of telling him how you felt in that moment and how his words made you feel.
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What is your pattern of communication or style of communication as a couple?
In what areas can you'll improve communication?
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