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Pms or something else?
Two week or days before my periods, i get this sense of dread, rage, anxiety, loneliness, and fear. Once the bleeding starts i am myself again.
Is this PMS or pmdd? Please advise.
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This could be PMS or PMDD. PMDD is more severe and usually causes significant emotional and daily-life difficulties.
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Track your symptoms and periods for at least 2–3 months and consult a gynecologist or mental-health professional for proper assessment.
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Maintain regular sleep, exercise, healthy meals, and stress-management practices. If symptoms are severe or affecting daily life, seek professional help.
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Hi, thank you for sharing your concern. The fact that you experience dread, anxiety, anger, loneliness and fear mainly before your periods and feel significantly better once menstruation begins suggests that your symptoms may be related to your menstrual cycle.
This can occur with PMS, while PMDD is a more severe form in which emotional and physical symptoms significantly interfere with daily functioning and relationships.
However, it is not possible to confirm PMDD based only on the timing of symptoms. Diagnosis usually requires looking at the pattern and severity of symptoms across multiple menstrual cycles. Keeping a daily symptom record for at least 2–3 months can be very helpful.
I would recommend consulting a gynaecologist for an assessment. If the emotional symptoms are significantly affecting your relationships, work or daily functioning, you can also consider consultation with a mental-health professional. CBT-based counselling can help with anxiety, emotional regulation and coping with premenstrual symptoms. Treatment for premenstrual disorders can involve psychological, lifestyle and, when appropriate, medical interventions.
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It seems to be GAD with other psychological issues. It needs to be treated asap otherwise it may get complicated and can affect your personal and social life.
Before menses harmonal changes can increase the complaints.
It needs to be treated in a holistic approach for complete recovery.
It can be well treated with counseling sessions and homeopathic medicine effectively and without any side effects.
You need an expert psychologist who is a good homeopathic physician.
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I have been working as a Homeopathic Psychiatrist and Counseling psychologist for the last 17 years of experience. You can contact me through an online appointment for further assistance.
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The timing of your symptoms does suggest a premenstrual pattern, but it would be important to differentiate PMS from PMDD through a proper psychological evaluation and symptom tracking. Since the emotional changes seem quite intense, I would recommend getting assessed rather than trying to self-diagnose.
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You can consider booking a session with me for a psychological evaluation. We can understand the pattern of your symptoms and how much they are affecting your daily life, and then decide what support would be appropriate.
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This sounds more than typical PMS, especially because you’re experiencing intense dread, rage, anxiety, loneliness and fear for 1–2 weeks before your period and then feeling like yourself once bleeding starts.
It could be PMDD, but the diagnosis depends on how consistently this happens across cycles and how much it affects your daily functioning. I would suggest tracking your symptoms every day for at least 2–3 menstrual cycles and discussing the pattern with a gynaecologist/psychiatrist.
The important thing is: don’t dismiss these symptoms as “just hormones.” They are real and treatable.
If you want to take online therapy sessions, connect with me on nine two six six seven two six zero six five.
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Ms. Rizwana Parvin T M
Counselling Psychologist
7 yrs exp
Coimbatore
Consult a gynaecologist to diagnose whether it’s pms or pmDD . From there we can take the counselling session accordingly.
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Ms. Pooja Bhargava
Psychologist
10 yrs exp
Delhi
Your symptoms appear to be related to your menstrual cycle and may be more intense than typical PMS. Track them for 2 to 3 cycles and consult a gynecologist or mental-health professional for proper assessment
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Mr. John Zachariah
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16 yrs exp
Ernakulam
Psychotherapist or emotional therapist
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Ms. Navyashree S M
Counselling Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Mysore
That "light switch" moment—where intense psychological distress suddenly lifts the moment your period starts—is a classic hallmark of cycle-related mood shifts. What you are describing (dread, rage, anxiety, extreme loneliness, and fear during the luteal phase, followed by immediate relief) leans strongly toward PMDD (Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder) rather than standard PMS.
Here is a breakdown of what is happening psychologically and how to approach finding relief.
1. Understanding the Problem: PMS vs. PMDD
While PMS and PMDD share a timeline, their severity and core symptoms differ significantly:
PMS (Premenstrual Syndrome): Typically involves mild to moderate physical symptoms (bloating, breast tenderness) alongside manageable mood swings or mild irritability. It usually doesn't derail your day-to-day life or emotional stability.
PMDD (Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder): Recognized as a severe health condition, PMDD is characterized primarily by severe psychological symptoms—intense emotional upheaval, extreme anxiety, rage, profound loneliness, and sudden despair.
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Psychological & Practical Solutions
Managing PMDD often requires a combination of psychological strategies, lifestyle adjustments, and professional medical guidance.
A. Symptom & Mood Tracking
Keep a 2–3 Month Log: Track your daily symptoms alongside your cycle Documenting that these severe feelings consistently vanish when bleeding starts is crucial for getting a formal diagnosis from a doctor or therapist.
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Consider printing or showing your symptom tracking notes to a gynecologist or a psychiatrist. PMDD is very real, but it is also highly treatable once properly
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi... Please consult a Psychiatrist for a medical diagnosis. These symptoms overlap in pms and pmdd both. A medical diagnosis requires a much deeper understanding of the issues an individual is suffering, along with understanding of how other mental health conditions may temporarily create a particular symptom which may or may not be an outcome of a disorder.
1. Gynaecologist--- to address physiological aspect of your condition, if any or to rule it out.
2. Psychologist--- to address the psychological aspect of your condition, as the root of such issues typically reside in the unconscious and subconscious mind.
3. Psychiatrist--- to receive a medical diagnosis (pms, pmdd, etc.) and medications, if any or to rule it out.
You can consult any one of the above professional and you will be guided accordingly. Avoid searching the internet to understand a clinical condition, as it causes more stress than relief.
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Consult a Psychologist.
CBT along with Interpersonal Guidance and Counselling using Psychoanalytic Approach is required.
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Ms. Poornima Waghmare
Mental Health Counselor
23 yrs exp
Mumbai
Hi..I understand what trouble you are facing right now & every month . Your pattern of intense emotional symptoms such as dread, rage, and anxiety starting one to two weeks before your period and lifting once bleeding begins strongly aligns with Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder (PMDD) rather than typical mild PMS. While both occur in the luteal phase, PMDD causes severe, disabling mood shifts that disrupt daily life.severe and disabling extension of premenstrual syndrome (PMS) driven by a negative brain reaction to normal hormonal shifts..
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first visit with gynecologist..and then psychologist also..
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Connect here. Take care of your physical & mental health..
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Ms. Smriti
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19 yrs exp
Bangalore
Connect with psychologist to discuss in detail with complete details
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Ms. Parmeshwari
Clinical Psychologist
4 yrs exp
Gurgaon
It is understandable to feel concerned when these emotional changes recur so strongly each month. The timing you describe does suggest a premenstrual pattern, but it is not possible to distinguish PMS from PMDD based on symptoms alone.
PMS can involve irritability, anxiety, low mood, fear and emotional sensitivity. PMDD differ from it based on duration, impairment in daily functioning, etc.
A helpful step is to track symptoms daily for at least 2 or more menstrual cycles(e.g., mood, anxiety, irritability, physical symptoms and their impact on functioning). This prospective tracking is important for assessing PMDD.
If the symptoms are intense or significantly affecting your relationships, work, or quality of life, it would be advisable to consult a gynaecologist and a mental-health professional such as a clinical psychologist for a proper assessment of PMS or PMDD, as well as to rule out other conditions.
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