My wife didnt want to sex. Married life!

Thank you for your question. The answer given by Dr Chethan is indeed excellent. Often in sexual disorders only one person presents with the 'symptom'. In reality as you have experienced it affects both partners. The crux of the matter is that you cannot treat just one person because the multiple causes are in both partners. May I suggest some self help material for both of you? If you have not been able to talk about your problem better after using these you should consult a psychosexual therapist. The following websites may help. www.porterbrookclinic.org - go to leaflets and read about therapy and its applications www.sexualmed.org you can read about loss of desire, aversion or loss of arousal in women. some books are Becoming orgasmic by J Lo Picollo and J Heimann New Male Sexuality by Bernie Zilbergeld (for both of you to read) Please understand that desire and arousal in women is complex and one single approach or medication does not often solve the problem.