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We had undergone one abortion 6 months back. We did it as our first kid was 2.5 yrs old and we stay alone outside. So we aborted 2nd pregnancy. It was mutual decision of myself & my wife. We were equally 50-50 agree in that. Post abortion I only felt very bad and anxious. Undergone deep depression. Then we decided to plan for baby. Now, we have tried 4 months, but still my wife unable to conceive. Due to that I am getting angry on my wife. I am saying to her that due to your issue I am suffering. I am blaming her for delay in pregnancy. I am getting very anxious , depressed & blaming my wife each time we are failing. Now, we have started showing to gynaecologists & due to which we are getting medical expenses as well which is increasing my stress more. I am openly sharing my opinion here. Please don't judge me by this. Is this normal symptomp? Is this behaviour expected? Am I doing correct in my place? If not please suggest some tips to deal with it. Any tips would be really helpful.
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Both of you need to go for marital counselling. Abortion for unplanned conception is not wrong. Again conceiving depends on various factors. Mind Needs to be calm too, especially for the lady, stress free. When you show your emotions on her it will affect her and subsequent ovulation too. Since you are wise enough to admit your emotional misgivings, go a step further to change it too. Wishing you both parenthood and happiness at the earliest.
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I can understand that the things u r going through may give rise to stress and other reaction
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You can do early morning jogging for 15 mins daily Along with you can do meditation/yoga/pranayam,whichever suits you You can avoid junk food and take healthy diet Apart from that you can do deep breathing,when you have overthinking Inspirate for 1st 3sec slowly and expirate for 2sec slowly You can also do reverse counting like 100,99,98,97... And so on It will make you calm and relax Do some extra curricular activities And spend all your time in doing some activities Do Jacobson relaxation technique https://www.healthline.com/health/what-is-jacobson-relaxation-technique
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