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Decision with Pregnancy
Dear madam, I'm currently 3 months pregnant, but unfortunately I'm not ready and it wasn't planned. We still went ahead with it considering my age and career but now I'm not completely happy about this and there are certain issues at home. We are thinking of terminating the pregnancy but I am very confused. Neither am I happy with the pregnancy nor am I happy with the thought of terminating it. I've been constantly stressing about the decision and to realise what exactly I want. Kindly help me understand my own thoughts so that I can make a strong decision and not regret later. Looking forward to consulting with you. Thank you.
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Hi, just get in touch with practo online as soon as possible because its just not about you but the foetus also. Kindly get in touch for further assistance at the earliest.
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I would suggest you to seek counselling regarding your issue.
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Hello
Unplanned pregnancy brings with it a lot of confusion and sometimes leads to stress.ask few questions to yourself
Are you really not prepared for a baby?
If not now when do you think you should plan?
Are you financially stable for the baby?
Aren't you happy with this pregnancy?
Sometimes clouding of thoughts happen which you should calmly sit and break your thoughtprocess systematic , all by your self.then you can discuss with your partner and both of you can amicably come to a conclusion. Please don't worry pregnancy itself brings lot of hormonal changes, we have seen during pregnancy few people have anxiety issues .rest eat healthy and sleep adequately and decide wisely.
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if you wish you can seek professional help.
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Hi, I understand what you are going through, I understand that the situation is making you feel anxious and helpless. Do not worry you will feel better and calmer after speaking to a psychologist.
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Feel free to reach out for a therapy session
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Hi dear. Its a great news. Congratulations. Carry on this moment of heavenly blessed and happy moment despite odds. See, couples across country are utterly planning this moment but they are failing. Accept whatever delightful comes to you all of a sudden. Dont hesitate. Destiny
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Accept challenges
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Congratulations
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Hi, you can contact me for an online appointment and we can explore this narrative together
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Ms. Komal Singh Parihar
Psychologist
7 yrs exp
Navi Mumbai
Hey dear, Congrats. Pregnancy can be a emotional roller coaster due to mood swings n hormones and unplanned pregnancy can bring much more unwanted emotions. What u r going through is absolutely normal. Don’t worry with right professional help you can come to a happy decision and acceptance for that decision. I would love to help u take that decision.
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Seek professional help
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Try n do activities which keep you relax n happy.
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Ms. Nikeeta Shah
Psychologist
3 yrs exp
Pune
Hey! I can see how internal conflict is causing you a lot of stress and making you experience a range of emotions all at a time. At the crossroads you're standing, the decision you take will involve a lot of factors, opinions and emotions, of not just yours but of your partner's as well. Making it all the more complex I can see. And I also feel any decision you make will cost you something very close to your heart, and some amount of regret will naturally follow. Nonetheless, any delay in the decision making might also end up in creating some unplanned outcome. In situations such as these, considering emotions as facts, along with the practicalities will, to some extent, help you see a clearer picture. Talking it out to a professional might also help you see the picture clearly, and maybe gauge the overall consequence of the road you decide to take.
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You may book an appointment with a psychotherapist, I'm sure that's going to give more clarity.
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Mr. Shree Deshpande
Psychologist
2 yrs exp
Pune
Need to understand why you are not completely happy with it and what certain issues are there at home .
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Counseling session with help
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Can contact for online consultation
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Sure.
Do Connect with me by using the link given below for a personal consultation to get clarity and to take decisions..
https://prac.to/hema-sampath-psychologist-dir
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