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Whenever my mother hurts me emotionally , I often go into my room closing door and get hurt. She comes once or twice with a restless energy and then if I don't understand or if I am over hurt she doesn't seem to put any extra efforts and simply leave the room to let me lye down alone for days.
Is it normal ?? I always believe she will sit with me and convince me until she doesn't make me happy back.
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Better you consult a clinical psychologist. There is need to be evaluated by a clinical psychologist. Because your description of problem is inadequate and one sided.
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Hi ,
I can understand your concern. I feel you both should talk. She might also carry a heavy heart as you. She may not like to hurt you. Until and unless you do not speak to her you will not able to understand her perspective .
It is always best to communicate when things does not go accordingly. You are always welcome for any professional help.
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As we know one coin has two sides and both sides are not same. We all are different and the way we show concern towards others are also different. That is the reason others actions towards us does not match with our expectations completely. sometime we need to see and understand their perspective too so that we can be in the same and mutual position. Try it.
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Dear Friend. Every People are different. Is your mother's behavior towards you "as you explained" for many years or are you noticing recently?
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Need psychological evaluation
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Ms. Sonali Nagdeo
Psychologist
10 yrs exp
Hyderabad
You seem to be
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
It looks like that, you are still expecting your parents to pamper you and treat you like a child at your age..
You are actually supposed to take care of them considering your age again..
As a mother, she may be having certain wishes about her son and could be that you are not meeting up those..
Consult a psychological Counselor for a better understanding about yourself..
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi... What you are experiencing is a discrepancy between a childs expectation of love and warmth from a parent (mother) and the parent's ability to fulfil it, given the kind of environment s/he is raising their kids in.
This is a normal (which is again referential and not absolute) expectation for a teenager but not for an adult (28 year old male). Especially lying in room for days is a sign of an underlying condition.
Such behavioral patterns are usually learnt unknowingly through imitation from one of the parent.
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Please consult a Psychologist for Counselling and Psychiatrist for detailed evaluation, if necessary.
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