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It seems to be childhood experiences leading to performance anxiety and other psychological issues. It needs to be treated asap otherwise it may get complicated and can affect your personal and social life. It can be well treated with counseling sessions and homeopathic medicine effectively and without any side effects. It needs to be addressed in a holistic approach for complete recovery. You need an expert Psychologist who is a good homeopathic physician.

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Hi, From what you describe I can understand there is fear of many things which keep you away from your goals.Fear,anxiety,stress in decision making all these issues can be treated by psychologists.I suggest you to think positive and practice journalizing your thoughts and feelings before going to bed.Priortize your goals and positively work towards them.I am ready to help.You can connect with me online.

It is completely understandable to feel completely overwhelmed when your mind constantly loops through "what-ifs," past choices, and worries about the future. When you are a naturally sensitive person, your brain often goes into overdrive, trying to protect you by overanalyzing every single detail to keep you safe from failure or hurt. It is incredibly exhausting to carry that heavy weight every day, but you are not broken for feeling this way your mind is simply working overtime to find certainty in an uncertain world. Counseling can give you a safe, gentle space to untangle all of these heavy thoughts. A counselor won't just tell you to "stop overthinking." Instead, they will work with you to understand where these fears come from and give you simple, practical tools to ground yourself in the present. Over time, therapy helps quiet that loud, exhausting mental noise, making it easier to regain your focus, let go of the urge to control everything, and step into your career and future with a genuine sense of calm and confidence.

From what you've described, it seems you've been experiencing excessive worry, overthinking, and a strong need for certainty since childhood. Constantly imagining worst-case scenarios, replaying past decisions, fearing failure, and trying to control every possible outcome can be emotionally exhausting. These patterns may be associated with conditions such as Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD) or other anxiety-related difficulties, but a proper assessment by a mental health professional is needed before making any diagnosis.

Hi, thank you for sharing this. From what you’ve described, it seems that you’ve been carrying this pattern since childhood. Your mind has learned to stay on high alert by constantly thinking about worst-case scenarios, trying to predict every outcome, and looking for certainty before making decisions. While it may feel like this is protecting you, it is actually keeping you stuck in fear, self-doubt, and regret, making it difficult to focus on your studies or enjoy the present. The good news is that these patterns can be changed. With the right therapy, you can learn to manage overthinking, reduce the need to control everything, and become more comfortable with uncertainty. You don’t have to keep fighting these thoughts alone. If you’d like to take online therapy sessions, you can connect with me on nine two six six seven two six zero six five.

Hi I understand how difficult that must be for you to over analyze everything. With the right support and Therapy, you will be able to overcome the issues you’re going through and have a good meaningful life and also concentrate on your studies

From what you have described, it seems that you have been struggling with excessive worry, overthinking, fear of uncertainty, and difficulty letting go of the past for many years. These patterns can make it hard to make decisions, concentrate, and enjoy daily life. With the right support, these thoughts can be managed, and you can learn healthier ways to cope with uncertainty and reduce overthinking.

What you’re describing has a name — catastrophic thinking. It usually starts in childhood, when the mind learns that controlling every outcome is the only way to feel safe. That coping style helped you then. It’s exhausting you now. As I often tell clients: “You can’t control the ocean, but you can learn to surf the waves.” Right now you’re trying to control every wave before it even forms — career, marriage, the past — and that loop you describe (replaying old choices for hours) is the mind hoping to resolve something that replaying alone can’t fix. This pattern responds well to therapy, especially CBT, which helps interrupt these thought spirals and rebuild calm around uncertainty. I’d encourage you to start counselling soon rather than carry this alone — the earlier you begin, the sooner your focus and sense of control will return.

Hi... Its called 'Negative Anticipation', which constantly make you anticipate a negative outcome. It creates a sense of fear, anxiety, stress, etc. You had a difficult past which doesn't lets you think that any positive thing can happen to you now or in the near future. Your mind makes you believe that only negative outcomes are more plausible. But it is not true. We all have equal chances of experiencing a positive or a negative outcome based on our performance on the relevant variables. This kind of thinking arises out of lack of support and acceptance from the parenting figures or significant others. When we feel less accepted or without any real support, we tend to start feeling scared of every small thing. We tend to start thinking in "what if"? than "what will"? Unless we sort out the past and build self-esteem in the present, no constructive change can take place. Try to find a good therapist and work with him/her on rebuilding your mindset to anticipate less and act more. Our mind is a complex cosmic machine. It has a potential to build almost anything but it requires patience, practice, and precision. Try to start doing things more based on what you want, rather than based on what you don't want or want to avoid. Start with small things like buying a new peice of cloth, etc. and be okay with not having the perfect choice. Try to choose what you like and not what is going to be perfect.

Hello Consult with a psychologist as we can see there are unresolved conflicts which are consistently developing fear within you

Constant overthinking and fear of making the wrong decision can be emotionally exhausting. A psychologist can help you reduce overthinking and build confidence in handling uncertainty

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