Dealing with health anxiety, especially after experiencing the death of close family members like your mother and brother, can be incredibly overwhelming.
I am a Psychologist based in Delhi. I would suggest the following:
1. Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques: Anxiety often makes the body tense and causes physical symptoms (like headaches, chest pain, or stomach issues), which can worsen anxiety. Mindfulness practices, like deep breathing exercises, meditation, or progressive muscle relaxation, can help calm both the mind and body.
2. Journaling and Self-Reflection: It can help to reflect on how your anxiety has developed since your family’s loss. You might notice patterns or triggers that you can address with your therapist. Writing down your thoughts and feelings might also help you process your grief and anxiety more clearly.
3. Developing Healthy Coping Strategies: Anxiety can be a coping mechanism for feeling out of control. It’s important to build healthy strategies that can help you feel more in control of your life, whether it’s through hobbies, physical activity, social support, or relaxation.
4. Addressing Somatic Symptoms: Sometimes, health anxiety manifests as physical complaints (like dizziness, headaches, or stomach aches). These symptoms can be real, but often stem from anxiety itself. A psychologist can work with you to differentiate between what might be anxiety-related and what might be a legitimate health concern.
5. Self-Compassion: Losing loved ones can leave you feeling fragile and vulnerable. Be kind to yourself as you navigate both grief and anxiety. It’s typical to feel unsettled, and acknowledging that your emotional struggles are valid is an important step in healing.
Next Steps
Please feel free to book a consultation. I am practicing online and offline in Delhi.
Health Tips
As a psychologist, I would advise seeking psychotherapy which is a structured and effective treatment to navigate anxiety and grief.