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I’m really sorry you’re going through this—it’s completely understandable that you feel heartbroken, betrayed, and anxious. Being used emotionally, financially, and physically by someone you trusted for 2.5 years is incredibly painful. His words about “genuinely loving you” but now “truly loving her” are self-serving justifications rather than a reflection of your worth. Right now, your mind is stuck in rumination (replaying memories), which is why you feel emotionally heavy, sleepless, and unable to concentrate. The comparison trap—seeing him succeed while you faced failure—adds to the emotional burden. But this heartbreak does NOT define you, and you CAN regain control over your focus, studies, and peace of mind.
To overcome this pain and refocus on your exam, start with structured coping strategies. Limit social media and any triggers related to him. Create a study routine that incorporates breaks with self-care activities like exercise, journaling, or meditation. When painful thoughts arise, redirect them by reminding yourself, “His actions do not reflect my worth. I am building a future that is independent of him.” Since you’re struggling with sleeplessness and anxiety, short-term medical support (like melatonin for sleep or mild anti-anxiety medications under a doctor’s guidance) could help, but therapy and coping techniques are equally crucial. This isn’t your last chance in life—it’s a tough phase, but you WILL get through it. If you want to take online therapy sessions, connect with me on nine two six six seven two six zero six five. I can help you work through these challenges with therapy and coping strategies.
Answered2025-03-09 06:59:58
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