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Verbal abuse
Is it normal to get verbally abused by your partner on insignificant things? What should I do to deal with it?
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No, it most certainly is not normal.
You could deal by not accepting this as normal behavior and making your partner aware that you are not fine with this behavior.
If he/she repeats the behavior, you should very firmly assert your point (of not tolerating this kind of beh) leave the conversation and ensure that things are not normal the next day unless your partner discusses everything in a civil manner.
There are other ways too.
Please consult online or in person for further help.
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Tolerating such behavior will only encourage the behavior. its not going to stop if you keep tolerating.
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Why is he abusing?
Is it his nature? Or has he become like this of late? It could be due to reasons or just a way of life
Try to figure that out.
And yes seek counseling and talk about it
Consult with me or any psychologist for therapy and counseling online or in person
All the best
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Greetings!
I would like to make one thing clear... ABUSE in any form Is for sure not the right gesture to practice or to be experienced. Tolerance has a limit and once breached might lead to serious consequences. Instead management of the scenario is advisable. If the scenario is so insignificant, there s no need for any kind of abuse to be imposed on anyone. There could be a number of reasons behind someone's behaviour, like frustration, dislike, substance use, impulse control disorder, displacement of anger caused by another person and it goes on..its wiser to find the reason for the behaviour and correct/treat that instead of tolerating or reacting to it.
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u could use the chat option/ visit our hospital for further help...
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kindly take yo partner to a nearby psychiatrist for resolution of your discomforts
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Dr. Swarupa Lakshmi (PhD)
Clinical Psychologist
31 yrs exp
Navi Mumbai
You are 22 yrs old student .Right..So here partner is your friend or boyfriend.If he is irritated and angry all the time that clearly indicates he doesnt want to be in relationship. Why to impose yourself on him.
And if his behavior is like this with everyone that clearly indicates he has some behavioral issues.
May be he has experienced something which he is not confident enough to share with anyone.
straight answer of your question is "No".Its not at all normal to abuse or get abused .But dont draw any conclusion .See if he needs any therapeutic help.
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If its persistent in his behavior..consult a psychotherapist.
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If you really want to help him.make sure his family is aware of his behavioral issues.Have patience and try to be empathetic.Tc
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