Stress & anger issue since childhood.

Since my childhood, I had this issue as I have seen my father having the same issue and torturing us with the same! That's a big story all together as I have heard that your childhood has to do a lot with building your personality! Now got married for a month, and having serious issues with my husband and I am over reacting on most of things and which brought both of us into verbal & physical abuse on each other! I don't want this life! I want us to be happy! But the way I am a always panicked about my own mood and anger I end up doing something nonsense which leed us to getting into ugly fight! Will medicines and therapists can help cause I am not able to help me or my husband! All I have the option to end my life if everything going in same way! Please please help!!