Short tempered. Dont know what to do.

  Anger is an emotion that you feel. It will be better to say that anger happens to you. Remember the last time when you experienced anger. How would you describe your situation ? . Will you not say that “Lot of anger came to me” ? . Anger is a normal emotion that can happen to anyone who gets frustrated when some desired thing is not happening or some undesired thing is happening since long. Till now you have understand that being angry is bad and one should not get angry, And here you are learning that anger comes. You experience anger and you say I am getting angry. Here dealing with this natural emotion is futile. Most important is to learn that anger is a secondary emotion which is a consequence of the primary emotion frustration and fear. In simple words this means that first there is a fear of future, which when continues dispite efforts from your side, turns into frustration. And continued frustration comes out in form of anger expression.  This means that  there are two levels of work that you have to do on the mind to handle the primary emotions of frustration and fear. We understand when the mind is not at peace, it becomes difficult to thrive. And living every day is merely following a schedule and this way of living adds to the pressure more and more. In such situations, we start becoming confused about our own self and everything around. And further, all this leads to a whole of related mental and emotional problems which affect work productivity, physical health, mental order and even creates conflicts in family.  However, now when it is hampering your daily life, it certainly needs to be addressed. The good news is that there are ways to recover from this state of unnecessary pain.  It is important for you to know that the biggest problem behind your experiencing ANGER is your unconscious thinking. The deep routed thoughts in your unconscious mind are the reasons behind all that you are experiencing.   We will work with you in a very simple yet structured manner to comprehend these deep routed thoughts that are at play. We have our well researched scientific yet simple process that can establish connection between you and your sub-conscious thinking. When you know the way your mind works and responds, it becomes easier to alter your thinking style and thereby modify your response mechanisms. All we need is your commitment and leave the rest on our team of expert psychologists..  If you have come reading all this way to find out what we do, it means that you have taken your first step towards the positive life that you want. And we will be assisting you in all the rest of the steps through and through to make you create success - WE PROMISE!  Call us and share your situation briefly over the phone with our expert psychologists and we will guide you with the best strategy that will bring the positive life back to you. We recommend that you must speak to our expert psychologists and share your situation briefly over the phone. Doing so, you will get to know the complete step by step process on how we will go about solving your specific concern. And then you can take your own time to decide. We assure you with utmost care during this phone talk and at all the times ahead. We assure that utmost confidentiality will be maintained. You can call us to fix the appointment or get more information as needed by you. We will surely help bring positivity in your life. Subscribe to YOUTUBE CHANNEL – KAMAL KHURANA  (300 PLUS VIDEOS). You can type in Youtube “being emotionally wise kamal khurana”. You can also purchase our book “It’s Ok by Kamal Khurana published by Notion Press”. This book is available at Notion Press. Also you can go to our website www.kamalkhurana.com. The book is available at this site. You can also watch our videos at Youtube. The channel name is KAMAL KHURANA. There are 300 plus videos on the channel and it can help you understand   PHONE COUNSELLING ALSO AVAILABLE   God Bless You.   Thanks and Regards, Kamal Khurana  (Psychologist)