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Relationship and Love

She is in relationship with a guy since last 6 years. Now she has came here for her job and career. She lives with me. And during her first job, she got attached to a guy who is similar to her character. She is always happy with him. He started falling for her and she likes him as well. Now she is confused wht she should do. According to her, there is no spark in her previous relationship. They hardly talk to each other. But her previous boyfriend loves her a lot and both of their families knows about each other. She cannot leave his boyfriend because he loves her a lot and she is confused whether she loves her boyfriend or not. And is she is in love with the new guy or not. The new guy is not as smart and handsome as her previous boyfriend as well as he is not as rich as her own family but her previous boyfrined has all the eligibilty criteria to be the son in law of her parents. Now she is confused wht should be done.
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Dr. Diwakar Sharma Delhi | Addiction Psychiatrist
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Hi there, its easy to get confused in this manner I the given situation. Feelings and emotions are never rational but the thoughts preceding such feelings can be trained to b rational. Trained rational thoughts will invoke logical emotions leading to logical behaviours. She needs to meet up someone like a psychiatrist who can help her get clarity of mind and think in a broader perspective. I hope this helps her but feel free to consult in case of any other queries. Take care.
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