Regarding guilt. What does this mean, ?

It could mean you have repressed guilt And some beliefs which make you regret and feel like you are a bad person But let me tell you Digging up past and Confessing it is not going to do you any good. Its best you work on whats causing your guilt and how to tackle this situation. Consult with me for therapy All the best

Feelings of guilt and shame stem from deeper routed beliefs about ourselves even though it seems to be specific to a certain condition right now. The need to confess in order to feel better is perhaps also a learned pattern developed early on because of unhelpful self belief systems that often act through our unconscious mind. Therefore the meaning to your need to confess most likely has a deeper significance (than to just confessing to your partner). In most cases, there tends to be similar patterns of guilt- confess cycle behaviours across relationships. If you feel this resonates with your experience and if you wish to explore this further, please consider psychotherapy.

Consider seeing a psychologist or psychotherapist

Feeling guilty about being attracted to other people while in a relationship is a common experience for many individuals. It's important to remember that finding others attractive doesn't mean you're being unfaithful or that your feelings for your partner are diminished. Attraction to others is a natural part of being human, and it's how we choose to act on those attractions that determines our commitment to our partner. However, feeling a constant need to share every detail about your past and present with your partner may suggest underlying trust issues or insecurities within yourself. It's essential to have open and honest communication in a relationship, but it's also important to recognize boundaries and respect each other's privacy. Sharing every thought or action can create an unnecessary burden on your partner and may create an atmosphere of anxiety and mistrust. Consider reflecting on why you feel the need to disclose every detail to your partner. Are there underlying insecurities or past experiences that contribute to this behavior? If so, it might be helpful to explore these feelings with a therapist or counselor who can provide guidance and support. Additionally, open and honest communication with your partner about your feelings, including your guilt and the need to share everything, is crucial. Discuss your concerns and find a balance that respects both your need for openness and your partner's need for personal boundaries. Building trust and understanding within a relationship takes time and effort from both partners. Remember, it's normal to find other people attractive even when in a committed relationship. What matters is how you choose to handle those attractions and maintain a healthy and respectful relationship with your partner

Yes ma'am , i can understand, sometimes for good relationship out past must be go away fully otherwise it is  haunting you again n again and u unble to maintain good relationship present ..so just confront with him if u feel it right or just forget about your past , beacuse no meaning to discus about it now ..