I m bhavini & m 30yrs and m married since 1yr. I work with an airline.My relation with my husband and in laws not going good. I stay with my parents. From last 8 months I have this sad, unwanted & muscles pull like feeling. I can't explain how I feel exactly. I get angry for no reason, sometimes I cry for no reason. I m very talkative being a flight manager but now i dnt talk to anybody except my mother. I have lost my sleep, at times I dnt sleep for 3 nights. And I feel fever, headache, nausea and tiredness all the times and I feel weight & pain in chest when I think about my life at present/future. I keep thinking for 3 4 hrs & I feel to commit suicide all the times but I dnt do because of my mother. I just want to be normal with my husband like i want to talk to him, eat with him,be with him.I want a normal life & small family. I have lost 14kgs & left job on temporary basis since January 20. My mother is continuously motivating me for everything. Its been verylong they are not talk
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Most likely you are suffering from moderated to severe Depression because of ongoing stressors in your life. Acknowledging your psychiatric problem is important then only the treatment will be successful.
Next Steps
Consider meeting a Psychiatrist in person or getting tele consultation immediately before depression becomes unmanageable
Health Tips
Do more what ever you like( hobbies, watching good movies, cooking some great food, listening to music, some physical activity)
Don’t do what you don’t like
Hello bhavani.
I read ur sufferings and tried to empathize with
ur circumstances. I agree you, it's very tough
time for you to cope with everything around
you. As a human being ,I believe marriage is one
of the big events in life. Husband hold a crucial
role in woman's life, he is her respect &
confidence, but at what cost.
-- If ur husband doesn't replicate the same
emotions as you have for him, it's not
accepted & shouldn't be entertained for long
time from ur side. You & ur family hold a
respect & dignity in ur life , ur self esteem
must not be ruined just for the sake of talking,
eating or being with ur husband. If u r
thinking to do so or you are ready to tolerate
all of ur husband deeds, one thing is sure you
are inviting more trouble to yourself &
allowing him to violate ur basic rights of
happiness.
** As a human being I suggest you to listen ur
mother's talk, discuss with other important
family relatives who have influence over ur
husband & In laws.
** As a Psychiatrist , I believe life & mental peace
is more precious than anything on this planet.
I will not advise you to think or move to ur
husband place despite of all sufferings that
they give to you. That should be handled
socially or legally.
** For your mood , emotions, sleep & appetite,
problems. I will suggest you to visit any
Psychiatrist of ur choice, don't let ur mind
suffer. Medicines are very helpful in such
cases, atleast they give you strength to think
rationally & act accordingly .
Next Steps
** Consult a Psychiatrist immediately.
Health Tips
** Remember ur dignity , respect & self esteem
is equally important .
** Don't neglect urs rights of being happy, ur
happiness equally matters but not at the cost
of ur exploitation.
** You deserve to be respected, loved & cared.
Don't let ur emotions & dignity be
compromised.
** Talk & listen to ur mother ,she will show you
path, don't underestimate her knowledge &
experience.
** Have a safe & peaceful day **
Somewhere you are in the subclinical level of Depression. You need to talk to somewhere. I believe you at the receiving end of something and there are some social issues which are somewhere bother.
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