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I am currently looking for groom and started looking in dating app. I met a guy was way to loyal and truth . But he started telling abt him as a modern guy and having sex is common to him
And expected me to be involved physical with him before marriage for which I dint agree and hence stopped talking to him
I am really confused with this . I love the way he leads his life as an independent employee and way to open about him
Can someone guide should I take this forward
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Hi. Though a male Psychologist must deal this case... I am guiding. One must consider marriage as a cultural phenomenon. One must not forgotten way of life maintained by parents. Marital harmony between parents influences a lot in our life. Modern way of living is appreciable but it should not cause any unhappy state of mind in the bride. Guilt in sexual relationship is very common and caused by the moral standards taught in one's community practiced in a family set up. Issues of morphing and revange video clips are in spread. Ask the man about your safety and commitment in the relation. Take in approach of direct communication and avoid online chats. Consider Indian scenario if you're settling here.
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Hi, it looks like you are confused about the relationship. You appreciate him for being independent but you are wondering whether you and the groom will be compatible with each other. You have one main concern and I suggest you connect with a psychologist and explain about the situation in detail.
I understand certain aspects of a relationship can be confusing. You can connect with a psychologist and explain about the situation in detail. Therapy sessions can help ease confusion. Do not worry too much and try to keep your mind as relaxed as possible.
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Please consult privately to discuss
Dont worry
All the best
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I think you don't want to do any sextual relationship with him it's good you should tell him for marriage if he loves you he will be ready .
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Ms. Shubha C
Psychologist
9 yrs exp
Bangalore
Occasionally wondering whether you should stay together or break up is just part of being in a relationship for most people.
Every couple, regardless of how they might look on the outside, goes through rough patches. And even if you deeply love your partner, it’s not unusual to occasionally wonder if the relationship is a good fit.
Understanding the difference between the normal ups and downs of a healthy partnership and signs that a relationship has run its course isn’t always easy.
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Ms. Jinisha Bhatt
Psychologist
8 yrs exp
Mumbai
Seeing someone and loving the way one leads his/her life is different from spending your life with that person. There are many aspects in a relationship.
Also be firm and clear of what you want and don't want in a relationship and what will make you happy being with a person in the long term. That will help you decide what to do further.
Being involved physically in a relationship is individual decision, so if you are not comfortable, then it's completely fine.
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See if you can communicate what you feel about being involved physically in the relationship with him and how he understands and respects your comfortness.
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Ms. Indu Agarwal
Counselling Psychologist
20 yrs exp
Ghaziabad
Hello dear
All better know guys on dating site are always open dey demand all the things .no matters money or be physical. For sem it is just fun
Dey k ow d tact how can dey easily impress d girls.
It's my simple advice don't look groom on dating site. Be practical
U must facing emotional attachment plz look forward.
If can't understand here how to deal with emotion . Yiu can consult the psychogist.
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Dr. Riddhi Goel (PhD) (PhD) (PhD)
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Meerut
There are so many things we usually don't like or don't prefer and at same time there are things we love in one person. So, important is to communicate clearly about what are your relationship goals and take decision accordingly. Best wishes.
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if still you get confused don't reach on to conclusion in a hurry and take time to decide.
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in the end it is always helpful to meet a psychologist.
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Dr. Seema Aggarwal (PhD)
Counselling Psychologist
11 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi.. I think you can give him another chance but not at the cost of your self - respect and your life's principles. But to take this firm decision you should go for pre marital counseling.. It will help you in taking right decision...
I do pre marital counseling and if you feel like u can book online session...
All the best dear...
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
In my opinion, your opinion about relationships and sentiments should also be considered by the other person...
Like how he is expressing his opinions and stands for that, you can also stand on your opinion..
If he is really a modern and understanding person, he should listen to you and respect your thoughts too.
Wait for his response..
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