Doctor Answers (2) on Mental Stress
Thanks for sharing your problem. IT professionals and a stressful life have almost become synonymous. I understand your situation. What you need to do, is take a break for a couple of days from everything, with your husband. Open your heart out to your husband, express your concerns, discuss your loing term plans together. See if it's a possibility for husband to chnage his job profile or location.
Having a baby, comes with a lot if responsibility. Ask if your husband is ready to share that responsibility with you. If mutual discussion aren't helping, get an objective third person's opinion in the form of a Couple's counseling.
Meanwhile, you need to garner and invest some time in discovering or rediscovering some activities that you might be able to do, to the most of the time that you have, when he's not around. The world is full of opportunities today. Make use of your strenghts an interests, and find something makes you feel productive and good about yourself.