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I am 34 years old. I am finding lots of stress due to wife's behaviour. Due to which I don't get proper sleep, I get hyper, I can't concentrate on my work . She is working woman but she doesn't want to spend a single expenses on house rent, vegetables , maid etc. She spends only in buying clothes and her personal things. I am fine with that, but she have issue if I take care of my parents and spend money for their medicines. I got a car and I hardly remove. if me and wife go out as we can manage by bike, but since my mom has knee pain and she is 68 years of age and never in life sat on bike so I remove car every time when I and mom go out on that too she has issue and she compare. My monthly expenses are 42 k excluding my parents medicine and my shopping on clothes. My net salary is 49 k. She is mentally harassing by suddenly not cooking food or tea, or by telling to remove parents from here who are 70+ Age, yelling and shouting in bed room. Pls help I m mentally down
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Hi thanks for approaching us. I can make out your difficulty in managing the relationship. I think you had lot of patience all these days, I appreciate it. I know wife will play a major role in managing the different things in the family, during this time you require a emotional support and also the guidance to manage this situation. Along with your wife please try and visit the marital counsellor/ family therapist who can help you in various aspects. don't feel low or helplessness, things will get worse. stay confidence/ positive. take care.
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meditation and yoga will help in stress relief, helps in managing your feelings
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I think hearing from one side I shd not number into conclusion. I would you both to meet a pot marriage counselor and express both of ur feelings and understand each other better
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Dear sir, it is very clear here that your wife is not being fair. It is important for you to assert when you are saying the right thing. Probably you both cannot talk to each other productively in this situation. It would be best to talk to a neutral person who can guide you both.
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Please be assertive and see a marital therapist with your wife. See a psychiatrist if you feel you need some stress relief.
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