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My husband has no empathy. From starting of the our relation he is the same. When at the beginning I asked him about the same thing he used to say its time taking for me to get involved.
These days we fight alot. He never want to disscuss about issues between ous. And he start blaming that you doesn't listen to me. This is what my side is. If you want to believe you can believe else I dnt care.
What I feel is,we are not connected. He dnt have feelings it's ok but he is so rude. He is best person when his mood is good. You ll listen to him. But other side is worst side
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He is very clear that he wants some time to get involved. Can you tell me how was your relationship before marriage. Empathy should not be asked. It should come within oneself. How you used to live before marriage just do your responsibility at its best and then see how things work and get back.
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Relationship is a dynamics between 2 individuals. May be you are expecting more or may be he is expecting more.
You both need to have open communication and clear the air.
May be space and time off from each other.
The input you have shared requires more input before we share further
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Couple counselling will help
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Hi. Enjoy those little happy moments. Everyone needs space while on a relationship. Everyone has flaws. If you have understood his personality then try to connect with him through commonalities.
Engage yourself in other work.
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Couple Counseling
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Ms. Kala Bhandari
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
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It’s not easy to cope up with so many differences in a relationship .You have tried to talk to your husband and that has not worked for both of you .Looks like something is bothering him too as you mentioned he is good when his mood is good .You can take counselling session which will help you in getting a clearer picture of your relationship .Don’t stress.
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Talking to someone will help and will make you understand where you stand in the relationship.
Counselling session will definitely improve your relationship and your mental health as well .
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Don’t Stress ..you can bring clarity in your relation .
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Mr. Shree Deshpande
Psychologist
2 yrs exp
Pune
When did you get married? Is there very less communication happening between you? is there any influence of in-laws or relatives ? where the discords are happening? - i have seen such cases and these can be resolved by counseling. Generally there are cultural and upbringing issues. Needs to understand his personality and way you communicate with him. Please take counseling at the early stage.
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Counseling psychologist can help you. If he agrees for counseling than it will be very effective.
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Can book a session with me for in-person or E-counseling.
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
As mentioned by you, he seems to be a good person at times..
Yet, there are differences between you both in expressing and while expecting..
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I suggest you to consult a Marriage Counselor for a couple Counselling..
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