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Husband physically verbally abuses
Hi my husband hits me soooo much a lot and a lot this is happening since 2 months ...I have a small kid 22 months old due to his shouting and hitting he is getting frightened I cannot come out of this relation as I don't have any support from my family ...my childhood was also same my father was very abusive I never wanted a man like my father but I got the same ...how can I not make my baby fearful I know it impacts him a lot but what can I do plz help me I don't want my child life miserable like mine ...plz help
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Consult a clinical psychologist. After evaluation you will be advised accordingly.
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Dr. Priya Puri (PhD)
Clinical Psychologist
10 yrs exp
New Delhi
You will need therapy in order to deal with the trauma caused as a consequence of abuse. You also need therapy to learn limit setting and assertiveness. You and your husband will also need couples therapy.
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
That's very unfortunate..
After this, choose one of us from this portal for a Counselling session.
You might get clarity and also few understandings about how to handle people and life.
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi... Physical, Verbal, Mental Abuse is a legal offence and comes under domestic violence in your case. You don't need the support of your family or relatives to help you out.
There are lots of women helpline numbers (in your city) that you can search and dial. Also, you can directly dial 100 for Police. He is legally obligated to provide (money/resources) for you and the baby under the Marriage Acts/laws in India.
Having said that, you need to think and understand why he is behaving like this? Was he like this from before the marriage or something is troubling him or provoking him to act out his frustration in this manner?
Typically, such people have been themselves victims of abuse in their childhood. But this is no reason to accept violence/abuse. He need to stop it. One option is Clinical (Psychologist/Psychiatrist), other option is Legal (Police/Court).
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Take a stand and speak to him.
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Ms. Muthulakshmi
Counselling Psychologist
4 yrs exp
Chennai
Hi
I can understand your situation. It's very hard to manage, but don't lose your hope and energy, because you have a child. You need to be strong.
Try to know that why he is hitting you.
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1. Is he taking any drugs?
2. If yes, try to take him to a psychiatrist.
At this time, your child will affect more. So try to make a child more happy and strong, avoid your fights infront of your child.
3. Did you speak with your husband about your child?
4. You can consult with a Psychologist about your married life problems, after that you can take a better decision.
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need a counselling session
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