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Hi I'm not happy in life..
I got married after I lost my first husband and my second husband always blames me for my character as I'm short tempered and treats me like an option. . He always gives priority to his 6 yr old son born to his first wife and makes me feel worthless. . He has also beaten up me .. I don't know whether I shud be with him or stay alone as I'm hating myself dese days..
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I understand you might be feeling lonely and betrayed by life and it's circumstances, I can sense that you want to be loved by your husband and it frustrates you when he doesn't priorities you being his wife. It must have been very hard on you.
It will be good if you work on yourself and gain the self confidence which you require first and then decide on the future solution about marriage rather than rushing on a drastic change in life when your not feeling very good about yourself.
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find out options to feel worthy, may be take up a job ( if your not already), do something new or help someone needy if it is possible., it could be anything.
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Hello Friend, Good that you are seeking a help here. I can understand your suitation. First you need to figure out reasons for your short tempered nature. Generally short temper, anger, frustration, irritation etc are expression or outburst of stress. Similarly body condition like excess heat, menstrual issues, acidity etc also can trigger stress. So it's better to analyze your reason for stress and address it.
Secondly, you need to analyze the reason behind the gap in your relationship with your husband.
Suggest you to take a marriage counseling to address both this problem.
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Call me directly or online through Practo app for further detailed evaluation and recommendation. Be positive. You will be alright soon.
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It's completely your call as to what you want to do.
Just think if a woman with same problem came to you for advice what would you say? You will get the answer
Separation requires a lot more.
Consult with me or any psychologist for therapy and counseling
Talk it out all the best
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Yes, it is difficult to accept such unexpected changes in life.
Yet, I want you to consult a psychologist for more understanding.
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Dr. Arjit Gaurav
Sexologist
12 yrs exp
Gandhinagar
First assess urself for aatypical depression,
After that will plan for treatment
I [Dr Arjit Gaurav,
MBBS DPM(Psychiatry),
Consultant psychiatrist & sexologist]
Can help u if u agree
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Dr. Anita Bafana Jagtap
Counselling Psychologist
30 yrs exp
Pune
Please visit counsellor
Thanks
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