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Having issues with penetration
It seems i've been in relationships but during sex i can't seem to have the penis in, like the men i've been with they can't insert it, saying it's shallow, what should i do, rest things like fingering etc is fine
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Difficulty with vaginal penetration can occur for several reasons, including involuntary tightening of the pelvic floor muscles (vaginismus), a tight or unusually shaped hymen, or occasionally an anatomical variation of the vagina.
Since you are comfortable with finger insertion but experience difficulty with penile penetration, pelvic floor muscle tightening is one possibility.
I recommend consulting a gynecologist for a gentle examination to assess the vaginal opening and exclude any structural abnormalities.
If vaginismus or pelvic floor muscle overactivity is identified, pelvic floor physiotherapy, relaxation techniques and gradual vaginal dilator therapy under professional guidance can be very effective.
Please avoid forcing penetration, as this may cause discomfort and worsen muscle tightening.
This is often a treatable condition, and appropriate evaluation can help identify the cause.
Dr Abdul Munnan Durrani
Specialist Urologist
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A proper history is needed here
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It seems to be due to vaginismus or Structural charges in the vaginal opening.
The concern can be well physical as well as psychological.
It needs to be addressed asap otherwise it may get complicated and can affect your personal and sexual life.
It can be well treated with counseling sessions and homeopathic medicine effectively and without any side effects.
It needs to be addressed in a holistic approach for complete recovery.
You need an expert sexologist who is a good homeopathic physician and psychologist.
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We have been working on such cases with good results.
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Dear Patient,
Thank you for sharing your concern. Difficulty with penile penetration despite being comfortable with fingering or other forms of intimacy can occur for several reasons. These may include involuntary tightening of the pelvic floor muscles, vaginismus, anxiety, insufficient lubrication, or anatomical factors. It does not necessarily mean that your vagina is abnormally shallow.
Please do not force penetration or continue if you experience pain. Allow yourself time to relax, ensure adequate arousal and lubrication, and communicate openly with your partner. Avoid pressuring yourself to achieve penetration.
I recommend consulting a qualified gynaecologist for an examination to assess the cause. If pelvic floor muscle tension or vaginismus is suspected, appropriate treatment, including pelvic floor physiotherapy or guided therapy, may help.
With the right assessment and support, many causes of penetration difficulties can be managed successfully. Please remember that this is a common concern, and there is no need to feel embarrassed about seeking help.
Regards,
Dr. Fayyaz Sexology Clinic
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U must get a physical examination done.
To rule out for the problem.
Accordingly treatment required to get rid of this problem
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consult for guidance
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Mr. John Zachariah
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16 yrs exp
Ernakulam
Pelvic floor massage is much better
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Dr. Rayees Ahmad Wani
Sexologist
16 yrs exp
Srinagar
May be you are hesitant of insertion that is why... Generally it is not shallow.
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Dr. Om Prakash L
Sexologist
8 yrs exp
Adilabad
Take consultation
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Dr. Moin Ahmad Siddiqui
Trichologist
10 yrs exp
Lucknow
Visit a gynecologist
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Dr. Kamal Kishore Verma
Psychiatrist
18 yrs exp
Agra
Consult
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Dr. Ankita Gahlot
Obstetrician
12 yrs exp
Bangalore
Difficulty with penetration while other touch feels fine is often linked to vaginismus, where the vaginal muscles tighten involuntarily, rather than an actual narrowing of the canal. It is a common, well recognised condition and a very treatable one, not something to feel embarrassed about or blame yourself for.
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A gynaecologist can examine you gently to rule out any anatomical cause and confirm if this is vaginismus. Pelvic floor physiotherapy with gradual dilator exercises works well for most women with this.
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Please don't delay a visit to a gynaecologist out of embarrassment, this responds well to treatment.
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