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Sexual Penetration Performance Issue
I’ve had one previous sexual experience where I wasn’t able to perform properly, and the relationship ended. Since then, I’ve become very conscious about sexual performance. Even with my current partner, where there is no pressure for penetration and we’re comfortable with other forms of intimacy, I frequently start worrying that I may not be able to maintain an erection or consummate. I then find myself monitoring my erection and worrying about failing.
More generally, I’ve noticed that although I can often get an erection, I sometimes have difficulty maintaining it and it may gradually go away. This has happened repeatedly, so while I suspect performance anxiety may be contributing, I’m concerned there could also be a physical factor. I’d like to understand whether this is primarily psychological, physical, or a combination, and whether I need any evaluation or treatment.
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This sounds like performance anxiety may be contributing, though physical factors can also coexist. If it persists, consult a urologist/andrologist for evaluation.
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Performance anxiety is definately troubling you . Better to have sex with full confidence . Consult if problem is persisting
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It seems to be post traumatic psychological experience leading to performance anxiety and ED.
The sexual changes can be due to physical, Psychological, harmonal and emotional factors. It needs to be treated asap otherwise it may get complicated and can affect your personal and sexual life.
It can be well treated with counseling sessions and homeopathic medicine effectively and without any side effects.
It needs to be addressed in a holistic approach for complete recovery.
You need an expert Sexologist who is a good homeopathic physician and psychologist.
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I have been working as a sexologist, homeopathic physician and psychologist for the last 17 years of experience. You can contact me through an online appointment for further assistance.
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Dear Practo User,
Let me explain you about your issue in brief -
Often frequent masturbation leads to erection problems and penis shrinkage. It seems to me you have been indulged in doing masturbation and watching porn alot.
Does it happen you get little Erection you feel you should go in and the moment you try to enter it goes down and it’s not hard enough for you to penetrate? Sometimes even if you penetrate you seem to lose your Erection soon?
At some point in a man’s life, he may have difficulty achieving or maintaining an erection. Erection problems occur when you can’t achieve or maintain an erection that’s firm enough to have sexual intercourse. Erection problems are also known as:
* erectile dysfunction (ED)
* impotence
* sexual dysfunction
In your case I believe you have developed symptoms of Erectile dysfunction.
However this issue is not a major problem to worry as there are medications and treatment available for the same. Rest assured your problem can be resolved.
You can contact me directly through my website for online or in person consultation - https://www.drfayyazsexologyclinic.com
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Hello Practo User, use homoeopathic medications for your problem to get Instant and effective results.Its Curable, no need to worry about. Homoeopathic medicines plays Excellent role to treat Such problems in a hollistic way without any side effect.I suggest you to message me your complete history in private chat with all reports & details & Consult Online through Practo. I will guide you for holistic & effective Results with homoeopathy ! Take care !! Best Regards:)
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From the history you describe, performance anxiety appears to be a significant contributor, particularly because the problem began after one distressing sexual experience and is now accompanied by anticipatory thoughts such as âWhat if I cannot maintain my erection?â and repeated monitoring of erection firmness. This can create a cycle of anxiety â increased attention to the erection â reduced arousal â loss of erection â greater fear during the next encounter. However, it would not be appropriate to label it purely psychological without assessment. Erectile difficulties are often multifactorial, and physical and psychological factors can coexist.
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A proper sexual-health evaluation should assess your erection pattern during partnered sex, masturbation and sleep, along with relevant medical, lifestyle and psychological factors. If your clinical history suggests it, appropriate evaluation can rule out significant physical contributors. Importantly, psychosexual counselling/sex therapy can be highly useful for performance anxiety, particularly when combined with appropriate medical management when required. Current urological guidance specifically supports addressing performance anxiety and involving a mental-health/sexual-health professional when psychological factors are contributing. For better treatment and personalised guidance, you may connect with us at 9 3 1 5 6 6 1 5 6 5 for proper treatment and guidance.
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With your current partner, try to temporarily remove penetration and erection firmness as the goal of intimacy. Focus on touch, kissing, stimulation and pleasure without checking whether your erection is âhard enough.â If you notice yourself monitoring the erection, gently shift your attention back to the sensations and connection with your partner. Avoid repeatedly testing yourself through masturbation or intercourse to prove that your erection works. Adequate sleep, regular exercise, limiting alcohol/smoking and managing general stress can also support erectile function. This pattern is very treatable, and one previous unsuccessful sexual experience does not predict your future sexual performance. Thank you
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●𝗬𝗲𝘀 𝗶𝘁 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝗯𝗲 𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗺𝗮𝗻𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗹𝘆 𝗰𝘂𝗿𝗲𝗱 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗛𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗮𝘁𝗵𝘆 𝗧𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 .
●𝗩𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝗲𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗺𝗲𝗱𝗶𝗰𝗶𝗻𝗲𝘀 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝗶𝗻 𝗛𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗮𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗰
●𝗪𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗺𝘆 𝘁𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗼𝗳 1.5 𝗺𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗵 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗺𝗮𝗻𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗿𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗲𝗳.
●𝗪𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗽𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗰𝗿𝗶𝗯𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗲𝘁𝗲 𝘁𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁.
●𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘀𝘂𝗹𝘁 𝗺𝗲 𝗻𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗵𝗿𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵 𝗼𝗻𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗲 𝗪𝗮𝗿𝗺 𝗿𝗲𝗴𝗮𝗿𝗱𝘀.
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Don't worry sir...
Few tests need to be done for evaluation and accordingly treatment required..
To get rid of this problem permanently without any side effects..
To be sexually fit completely..
To enjoy sexual activity and satisfy your partner completely..
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consult for prescription and guidance
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be stress free..
sleep well..
avoid smoking
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Take consultation
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Consult online through Practo
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