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Friend issues hurting me badly since 1yr
So one of my vgood friend had a tiff with me.after that she trying to talk normally to me without realising her mistake.i am just option for her .she has proved many times not a priority. Whereas there are two other friends who are priority. I don't feel like talking to her since the time I know I am just an option it hampers self respect.despite of trying from my side I am not able to accept it..so I try to avoid having conversation ..
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You need counseling sessions to improve your perception and decision making skills.
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Hi,
sometimes without realizing we give too much to one person in terms of attention, love, care etc. due to which our expectations rises coz of attachments. forgetting self into the relationship is biggest mistake we can do for self.
consult to connect with deeper self, to heal inner self, & feel self reliable.
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Greetings for the day!
I understand that you are not feeling good at all about being an easy alternative.
Drawing healthy boundaries in any relation is essential for your self esteem.
Having a one to one conversation with your friend may bring more clarity than avoiding it, however you can do it when you feel prepared.
You can express and make known your concerns in this equation.
You can consult for further assistance.
Happy healthy Living!
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Working with one's self esteem would help you function healthly and improves social interactions. Certain psychological methods can be employed to promote self esteem
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Hear your own inner voice and do as it tells u. Most often your instincts are right and if they’re telling u something then you must listen and act accordingly.
It is certainly hard to accept rejection from a person who was your friend once. However it is their choice to remain your friend or not and unfortunately u can’t do anything about it.
But there are always other choices. So have faith in yourself that u will find good friends and keep up with the task of finding new friends.
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You are feeling hurt about your very good friend not being close to you. You want to have a good relationship with your friend but she is not treating you as a good friend. You are feeling hurt and upset. You care about your friend and it shows you are a caring and thoughtful person. It is important for you to feel good about yourself. If you are feeling extremely hurt consult a psychologist for counselling sessions.
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Consult a psychologist.
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Contact me for counselling session. Along with counselling I can suggest natural foods to calm the mind.
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Hi, Instead of making any conclusion about your friends behaviour,you need to talk to her regarding your concern.Be assertive.Consult a psychologist for learning communication skills, interpersonal skills, assertiveness skills etc
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Hi, I understand that you feel rejected by your very good friend. It hurts you a lot. Try and explore the possible reason behind your friend's behavior. This will give you more insight into the situation and see things from your friend's perspective. Next I encourage you to examine your own behavior to see if you have unintentionally contributed to the rift. Next, I encourage you to develop healthy coping strategies such as mindfulness, journaling, talking to family and friends. Also please engage in self care activities such as exercise and hobbies. You could also explore possible ways of repairing the relationship. Consider having an open and honest conversation with your friend about what happened and you both could move forward together. Finally reframe your experience in a positive light by focussing on the lessons learned and how the experience can help you grow as a person.
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If needed consult a counsellor/psychologist.
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Hi,
The world is a big place full of new people to meet and rich experiences.
Fights happen . It could be caused by simple miscommunications . Honest and clear communication is the key to any successful relationship.
You deserve friends who make you feel like a part of the group, but you can’t always control how other people treat you .
Contact a Counselling Psychologist, to help you deal with this. You can, become more confident in yourself so that you can manage your feelings.
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Contact a Psychologist.
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Try channeling your emotions into a creative project such as drawing, writing , music a hobby of your choice .
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Ms. Smriti
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15 yrs exp
Bangalore
I think you are deeply hurt because the way you have loved her you didn't received it back.connect with psychologist to resolve it more deeply.
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