Feeling sad often, disturbed sleep.

You need to consult a psychiatrist and clinical psychologist both.bipolar disorder and BPD are same. Generally medicine and psychological treatment are required for lifetime.

consult a clinical psychologist and psychiatrist

there is no magic cure for BPD.

Consider counseling along with thr medication.. Probably, a listening ear might give her a new life and a different perspective to face life..

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Hi... Sometimes there is a mismatch between the patient and the doctor (Psychiatrist/Psychologist). In such case it is better to consult another professional but dropping the treatment cannot be a solution. There is a good Psychiatrist in Bangalore - Dr. Naveen Jayaram (M.D. Psychiatry, NIMHANS). He sits in various hospitals and available on Practo as well. You can consult him. Try to understand this, medication and therapy goes side-by-side. Sometimes people take only one thing and expect a complete recovery. If the root causes of her condition is more psycho-social in nature, psychotherapy/counselling will play a major role but if the root cause of her condition is more biological/genetic in nature, medication will be more crucial. In either case, both medication and counselling will go side-by-side.

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You need to motivate her to take the treatment. You can ask some common people (friends/family) who have benefited from Counselling/Medication to motivate her to not loose hope with her treatment and consult other professionals (Psychiatrist/Psychologist).