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I am at the age to get married , but i dnt want to . I have came cross many man for the marriage purpose i literally feel uncomfortable to have conversation on marriage purpose. Actually i lost both my parents . Had brkup after 3.5 years of relationship. Now literally i wanna be on my own space ..dnt want to get married to anyone but my relative always advice me to get married as they are concern about my future. But whenever i cross any boy after 2-3 days of talking they wanna talk sexual chit chat i do want to ...just annoys me all such chat .. what to do now
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It happens when you had some bad experience in your past or you might have a very strong perspective about marriage for better understanding consult a psychologist.
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Seek counseling sessions to improve your perception and decision making skills.
You need an expert Psychologist.
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i have been working as a Homeopathic Psychiatrist and Counseling Psychologist for the last 17 years. you can contact me through an online appointment for further assistance
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You need counseling sessions to deal with your issue in a better way. You should book an online appointment with me for further assistance.
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Thanks for reaching out. You have not found the right person for marriage and you don’t want to think about marriage. Your relatives are insisting that you find someone for marriage. When you talk to guys the experience has not been good. Where marriage is concerned you have to find the right person and someone who is decent. It is okay if you are not thinking too much about marriage and there is no right age to get married. You have to be secure in a marriage. Whenever you talk to guys you have to think about your well-being, happiness, and security. You can think of getting married when you find the right person. In the meantime you can work on other things such as your goals and passion. If you are keen on pursuing a career or starting a business you can work on it.
If you are feeling extremely anxious about thinking of your marriage or if you are feeling anxious about your relatives putting pressure on you consult a psychologist for counselling sessions.
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Contact me for counselling sessions. Along with counselling I can suggest natural foods to calm the mind.
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Hi dear, you seem to be confused with your own self . Your occupations would determine how would you like to move on in life . Getting married at this age could be a matter of concern but not a compulsion . You need to connect with a mental health practitioner to systematically resolve your confusions in mind .
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Consult ( online / in clinic) with an experienced, Licenced Psychologist to resolve your issues asap. A few CBT session will help you
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Thinking is part of one’s life , but worrying is infectious , So try to lead a systematic lifestyle to be happy within yourself .
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cognitive Restructuring,
calming skills,
assertiveness skill
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Hi, Consult a psychologist
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I totally get where you are coming from. It's Definitely being difficult with what you are going through.
It's not easy considering the pressure from relatives and the uncomfortable things happening when you try and talk to guys.
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you should definitely reach out to a Psychologist to help you navigate through this tough phase.
you can reach out to me as well. I'm counselling psychologist
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I understand that losing your parents is never easy. Loss of a relationship can also be a rough one. Would suggest that you go in for counselling to process your grief.
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Take counselling to process your grief.
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Ms. Simran Sharma
Psychologist
1 yrs exp
Kolkata
It's important to take the time to understand your own desires and boundaries before making any decisions about marriage. Given your past experiences and discomfort with conversations about marriage, it might be helpful to explore these feelings further in therapy. Premarital counseling can provide a safe space for you to process your emotions, clarify your values and goals, and gain insights into your relationships and communication patterns. Therapy can also help you develop strategies for setting boundaries and navigating conversations with potential partners. If you're interested, you can reach out to Mind Sculpt for therapy sessions.
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Ms. Pooja Gupta
Psychologist
4 yrs exp
Delhi
Hi,
It's understandable that you may feel pressured by societal expectations and well-meaning advice from relatives, especially given your age and circumstances. However, it's essential to prioritize your own feelings, desires, and well-being above external pressures.
First and foremost, it's okay to not want to get married if it doesn't align with your current goals and desires. Your feelings and choices are valid, and you have the right to live life on your own terms.
When it comes to interactions with potential partners, it's important to set clear boundaries and communicate your expectations from the beginning. If someone's conversation turns towards sexual topics and makes you uncomfortable, don't hesitate to assertively express your discomfort and redirect the conversation to more appropriate topics. If they continue to disregard your boundaries, it may be a sign that they're not the right fit for you.
You might also consider taking some time to focus on yourself, your interests, and your personal growth before considering marriage or entering into another relationship. Use this time to explore your passions, pursue your goals, and strengthen your sense of self. Remember that you are in control of your own life, and it's okay to prioritize your own happiness and well-being above societal expectations. Trust yourself and your instincts, and don't be afraid to seek support from trusted friends, family members, or a therapist if you need it.
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
I understand your state of conditions and the confusions due to those situations..
Would suggest you to consult a psychological Counselor to understand yourself better and to overcome this issue..
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Ms. Smriti
Counselling Psychologist
15 yrs exp
Bangalore
Would be better and helpful if you could connect with a psychologist
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Ms. Trishi Tangri
Counselling Psychologist
5 yrs exp
Hyderabad
Marriage can be a sensitive subject and an important milestone in life. It is always advised to not take the decision under pressure. Being ready to take this decision is essential to move forward with it.
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If it is causing you a lot of distress, you can always talk to a professional to help you navigate through your emotions.
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