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Erection issue for my husband
Hello Doctor, Writing this for my husband. We are married for 6 years now and have not conceived yet. My husband has erection and motility issue. He is overweight and doesn't show any interest in intercourse.In this 6 years , we have had intercourse in only 1st 3 months of marriage. Now a days i am having so much desire to enjoy the pleasure but he doesn't show interest at all. I am waiting for 5.5 years now thinking that he will understand me.Sometimes he takes penegra to get erection but he doesn't last for more than a minute also he does it with great difficulty without any interest. When i say i am interested he gives reasons like , penegra is having side effects which is not ok him, bed is not ok, he is tired, leg is paining, not today since he is not having mood etc. is my desire for having intercourse wrong ? Or do i have to just leave with the fact and not wish for good sex at all? He is not interested in visiting any doctor and take corrective steps as well.
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Hello, Let me explain you about your issue in brief - Does it happen you get little Erection you feel you should go in and the moment you try to enter it goes down and it’s not hard enough for you to penetrate? Sometimes even if you penetrate you seem to lose your Erection soon? At some point in a man’s life, he may have difficulty achieving or maintaining an erection. Erection problems occur when you can’t achieve or maintain an erection that’s firm enough to have sexual intercourse. Erection problems are also known as: * erectile dysfunction (ED) * impotence * sexual dysfunction In your case I believe you have developed symptoms of Erectile dysfunction. However this issue is not a major problem to worry as there are medications and treatment available for the same. Rest assured your problem can be resolved.
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Don't worry .. Your desire is ok and natural and should be fullfilled . There are treatment options availabe , as u hv to extend your family also . I understood your concern  and noted the problem as well .I need to ask few more details to make a diagnosis and start treatment and advice which suits you. Pl consult me on Practo , so that I can help you better.book a time slot as per your convenience for consultation.
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Take proper knowledge about this first Chat online with me
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Hello ma'am.  Your desire to have sex is natural and quite normal. You have to get him to the psychiatrist for detailed evaluation and treatment for his lack of desire. 
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Don't panic.. Give him herbal supplements.. To be sexually fit completely.. Erection will remain hard.. To increase desire and stamina for sexual activity.. To enjoy sexual activity.. To satisfy each other.. To enjoy happy married life
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Your complaints are very complicated sister, can't here with short form, he need proper therapy..just talk to him and please take him to the nearest any  therapist and take proper treatment..... Best of luck....or contact online or book a session
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Hello ..i can understand.. sometimes low sexual desires may be happen due to number of reasons ..so we need rule out them and another thing is that don't think negative ma'am , maam i can understand, sex life is also important like our physical health .. so ma'am don't worry we will start treatment once u consult n tell u other strtegy for sexual arousal for your husband.. with Regards - Dr Vishal
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Consult
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Take consultation
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Consult immediately madam
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