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Scaring about having sex with my husband
I'm newly married and i love my husband a lot. I'm virgin and i have no past. But i am so scared about having sex with my husband. My husband understands this and never forced me to have sex yet but he is not happy at all. 10 months are passed now. But we don't have sexual relationship. Please advise me what should i do because i want to see my husband happy. We fight because of this only. Otherwise we have no problem at all. Is there any anesthetic medicine ? Because i don't want to feel pain of this. I'm so sorry, my problem is totally different. Please advise as early as possible.
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Hi good afternoon Thnxs for your question Don't worry about it. U love ur hubby and ur hubby understand u very well so no problem in ur sexual life. Ur fear is OK regarding pain during sex, but dear that pain will makes u and ur hubby so happy after completing sex. Do one thing, u can do long foreplay that make ur vagina more wet and that will act as a lubricant, so that ur hubby penis will easily slide inside without much pain. And at time of penetration just relax ur back and thighs. Ask ur hubby to divert ur mind so u don't know abt penetration. Like deep lip kisses, stimulating ur nipple etc Thnxs
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