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Emotional Distant Husband
How do I cope up with moody and emotionally isolate husband? We both love each other to core. We are newly married and have courted 7 months prior our marriage. We generally have conflicts over our opinion. He has slight conservative and orthodox opinions towards women ( All thanks to his orthodox and conservative family). We mostly fight over my petty conflicts with my in-laws behaviour towards me. My husband was madly in love with me and was dying to marry me on initial days. I made him realise in those days that I'm free spirited independent working women and may not be able to adjust in his family. It seems that he was under impression that his love will change me. He still expect me to care as a housewife though I work outside. He cannot hear anything against his family and not even willing to stay apart from his family. Our marriage has just begun and we already fight twice a week over some different opinions. Worse he does is give me silent treatment instead of finding solution.
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Hi dear Changing opinions and mind sets take a lot of time. Sometimes he expects something's from you and something's you would be expecting. It's important to recognize them, and then see how realistic they are. Secondly every marriage needs adjustments, to what level both of you are giving it and is there any acknowledgement from both the sides. I feel letting each other know what is important for you both is necessary but at the same time giving in little extra out of your will is equally valuable.
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meet a psychologist,a couple therapist.
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