Doctor Answers (5) on Depression
First accept him as he is. Understand the basic difference between men and women psychology.
Before the relationship get stained further, get help from a psychotherapist.
If not, understand his situation or problems which he undergoes silently by not sharing with you or it could be that he has shared to anyone in this world.
Observe him and visit a Psychologist cum family counsellor in your place and help him.to overcome this behaviour.
Usually people who develop irritability, anger, impulsivity would be going through some stress, anxiety or depression. I suggest you take your husband for consultation to see if he needs any help. And you need to see things bit objectively in the above context & explore why your husband is getting angry. Stay calm, practice yoga relaxation and meditation. If you are still struggling to cope, consult and preferably with your husband. Regards