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I have a strange question which has been there in my mind for a long time,I used to chat with random girls online sometimes and I also talked on call with 2 or 3 girls while I was in a relationship,which lasted 1.5 years,she broke up.After that,I don't know that thing which I used to enjoy while staying in the relationship doesn't make any sense for me,I rarely chat with any girl nowadays and if I chat then my goal is just for time pass for 1 or 2 days,like if I am free, don't have any work to dont feeling sleepy or not finding any series to watch then ok let's send hi to a girl,but doesn't wanna go on date, doesn't want to be intimate,nothing.While I should not have done that thing while in relationship,now I can do but can't..why?
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There is a lot of emotional turmoil. It needs to be treated asap otherwise it may get complicated. It can be well treated in a holistic approach for complete recovery. You might require counseling sessions by an expert. Homeopathic medicine along with counseling sessions would be well best solution. You need an expert psychologist who is a good homeopathic physician.
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Here are some potential reasons why you might be experiencing this: 1. Desensitization: With frequent interactions, you might have become desensitized to the excitement and novelty of meeting new people. This could make it harder to feel that spark in future relationships. 2. Unrealistic expectations: Your o interactions might have created unrealistic expectations about relationships. You might be comparing your real-life relationships to the idealized or fantasy-like connections you had online. 3. Lack of emotional intimacy: Your interactions might have been more superficial, focusing on casual conversations rather than deeper emotional connections. This could make it challenging to form meaningful, intimate relationships. 4. Fear of commitment: After being in a relationship and experiencing a breakup, you might be subconsciously hesitant to commit to new relationships or invest in emotional intimacy. 5. Personal growth and reflection: It's possible that you've grown as a person, and your priorities or values have shifted. You might need to reflect on what you want from relationships and what's holding you back from experiencing enjoyment and intimacy.
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1. Reflect on your values and priorities: Take time to understand what you want from relationships and what's important to you. 2. Focus on meaningful connections: Instead of seeking superficial connections, focus on building deeper, more meaningful relationships. 3. Practice emotional intimacy: Work on forming emotional connections with others, which can involve vulnerability, active listening, and empathy. 4. Seek professional help: If you're struggling to overcome these challenges, consider seeking guidance from a therapist or counselor.
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Remember, personal growth and self-awareness are key to overcoming these challenges. Be patient, and don't be afraid to explore and learn more about yourself.
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Your lack of interest in chatting now could be due to various reasons. One could be guilt from your past relationship. Earlier, chatting felt exciting because it was forbidden, but now it seems meaningless. Your breakup may have shifted your perspective on connections, making temporary interactions feel empty. You might also be emotionally detached or seeking deeper bonds without realizing it. It’s normal—don’t force it. Let yourself process this phase naturally.
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Seek professional help if you feel emotionally numb, persistently disconnected, struggle with guilt, or experience changes in mood, sleep, or daily functioning.
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