Hi, I'm sorry to hear about your cousin's difficult experiences. His symptoms of tremors, panic attacks, and overthinking are signs of significant emotional distress, likely related to grief and trauma. The main treatment typically involves a combination of psychotherapy, such as counseling or trauma-focused therapy, to help him process his grief and emotional pain, along with medications like antidepressants or anti-anxiety drugs if a psychiatrist assesses that they are needed. It's important to remember that there is no medication to erase specific memories; instead, therapy helps him cope better with past experiences, reduce anxiety, and build resilience. Encouraging him to seek professional help from a mental health specialist is essential, as they can provide tailored treatment and support to help him recover and improve his mental well-being.

Hello Losing one’s family and a close partner is an extreme, life-altering trauma. Treatment focuses on safety, grief, and rebuilding meaning. 1. Immediate Support & Stabilization Goal: Help the person feel safe and not alone. Being surrounded by trusted people (friends, relatives, community members) Establishing basic routines: sleep, meals, hydration Reducing isolation (regular check-ins, not forcing conversation) Gentle reassurance that intense emotions are normal after devastating loss If the person is overwhelmed, numb, disoriented, or unable to function day-to-day, professional help should begin early.

Hi He has indeed gone thru a terrible trauma at a very young age. At first u need to know that there is no medicine for forgetting trauma. However there r many psychologists who do trauma focused work which can be extremely helpful in these cases. Trauma therapy will allow him to reprocess all traumatic memories and he will be able to adjust in his environment without fear or panic attacks.

It is clear your cousin has endured significant trauma and loss. When a person experiences multiple deaths of primary caregivers followed by a relationship loss, the brain can enter a state of chronic "high alert," which manifests physically as tremors and panic attacks. There is no medication that can erase memories. While a psychiatrist can prescribe medication to reduce the intensity of panic and tremors, the memories themselves must be processed through therapy. Healing comes from changing how the brain reacts to the memories, rather than deleting them.

The symptoms described suggest unresolved grief with anxiety triggered by multiple losses and a recent emotional breakup. Such cumulative stress can lead to panic symptoms, tremors, and persistent overthinking. There is no medication that can erase past memories; treatment focuses on emotional processing, anxiety reduction, and psychological stabilisation.

It is incredibly brave of you to seek help for your cousin, especially after everything he has endured. Given the profound losses he experienced at such a young age, followed by this recent heartbreak, it is completely understandable and even expected that his mind and body are reacting this way. These tremors and panic attacks are not signs of weakness; they are his nervous system’s way of signaling that he is carrying more weight than anyone should have to bear alone. Counseling can provide him with a safe, non-judgmental space to finally give a voice to his grief and frustration. Rather than trying to "forget" the past, a counselor can help him process these memories so they no longer hold so much power over his physical health. By learning to express these heavy emotions in words, he can begin to release the tension held in his body, helping him find a sense of calm and resilience for the future.

Based on what you have described, he has experienced multiple childhood losses and recent relationship grief, which can reactivate unresolved grief and trauma. Symptoms such as panic attacks, tremors, and overthinking are common stress–anxiety responses in such cases. Main treatment approach: 1. Psychological therapy is the primary treatment, not medication alone. Grief counseling / trauma-focused therapy Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT) for panic and overthinking If trauma symptoms are strong, therapies like EMDR may help 2. Medication may be prescribed by a psychiatrist only if symptoms are severe, mainly to reduce anxiety or panic. Medicines do not erase memories; they help regulate symptoms so therapy can work. 3. There is no medicine to forget past memories. Therapy helps the person process, emotionally heal, and reduce the distress attached to memories, not delete them.

This condition often falls under Complicated Grief / Trauma-related Anxiety / Adjustment Disorder, and sometimes PTSD-like symptoms.

Hi, Consult a psychiatrist

It seems that he is suffering from post traumatic anxiety and other psychological changes. It needs to be addressed asap otherwise it may get complicated. It can be well treated with counseling sessions and homeopathic medicine effectively and without any side effects. It needs to be treated in a holistic approach for complete recovery. You need an expert Psychologist who is a good homeopathic physician.

Hi Losing his mother at such a young age, followed by the loss of his grandmother and father within a short span, is multiple, unresolved grief. When such deep losses are not emotionally processed, the mind keeps them stored as unhealed pain. The recent breakup has acted as a trigger, reopening old abandonment wounds, which is why his body is now responding with tremors, panic attacks, and overthinking. This is not weakness it is the nervous system reacting to accumulated loss and fear of being left alone again. There is no medicine that can erase or make someone forget past memories. Medicines, if prescribed by a psychiatrist, only help reduce symptoms like panic, anxiety, or sleep disturbance so that the person becomes stable enough to process emotions. The main treatment is therapy, especially grief-focused and trauma-informed therapy, where he can safely process losses, build emotional regulation, and relearn a sense of security. With proper therapy, memories lose their emotional intensity and stop triggering panic. Take therapy. You can connect with me on nine two six six seven two six zero six five.

The cousin brother has experienced multiple significant losses at a very young age, including the death of his mother, grandmother, and father, followed by a recent relationship breakup. This pattern suggests unresolved childhood grief and cumulative trauma, which has likely been reactivated by the recent emotional rejection. The current symptoms such as tremors, panic attacks, and overthinking point toward trauma-related anxiety, possibly panic disorder or complicated grief, rather than a single isolated issue. His nervous system appears to be in a prolonged state of threat and emotional overload.

Hi... It might be difficult for you to understand at this young age, but he needs Grief Counselling for the loss of parents/grandparent he suffered in 2019 and at the age of 9. This feeling of loss when left unattended, takes form of fears, insecurity, and soul recking loneliness. It may not appear so on the surface but deep down inside it keeps playing on all the choices one takes in his/her life. His present predicament (interpersonal relationship) in only tearing an already torn out mental state. Unknowingly, we also attract what we fear the most. Like the loss of love. We get attracted to what we believe can't happen or is in a way going to destroy us in the same way. He requires therapeutic intervention at the earliest.

Hi, What your cousin brother is experiencing appears to be a trauma-related anxiety response, triggered by multiple unresolved losses since childhood and now intensified by a recent emotional breakup. Losing his mother at a young age, followed by the loss of grandmother and father within a short period, would have deeply impacted his sense of safety and attachment. The breakup has likely reopened old grief and abandonment wounds, leading to symptoms such as tremors, panic attacks, and overthinking. These reactions are not a sign of weakness, but rather the nervous system being overwhelmed by accumulated emotional pain.

Hello, I am so sorry to hear that. That must have been really difficult. I appreciate you, who is looking for answers for your brother. My advice would be to take him to a psychologist, who will help him with his tremors, panic attacks and overthinking. As for a medicine to forget his past memories, the best way is with therapy, because that’s where he will be able to deal with his traumas, but if there are more peripheral issues, for example, trouble sleeping or excessive anxiety and panic attacks, then a psychiatrist would be able to prescribe him with some medications. You can look for both online and offline therapy options, and choose whatever works best. Hope everything works out for him.