Hello,
Thank you for sharing what you're experiencing. It sounds like you've been carrying a heavy mental burden, and I appreciate that you've reached out for support.
From what you've described, you're experiencing persistent negative thoughts, excessive overthinking, self-doubt, and an ongoing internal conflict where different thoughts seem to argue with each other. This can be mentally draining and may understandably affect your concentration, mood, daily functioning, and relationships. It's also clear that you're concerned about the impact this is having on your relationship with your girlfriend, which shows how much you value the people close to you.
Next Steps
Many people experience similar symptoms during periods of stress, anxiety, or emotional distress. However, it's important not to jump to conclusions or self-diagnose. A detailed psychological assessment is the best way to understand the underlying causes and determine the most appropriate support.
In our sessions, we'll begin by exploring your thoughts, emotions, daily experiences, and any recent life events that may be contributing to these changes. Together, we'll identify unhelpful thinking patterns, understand the emotions behind them, and work on practical strategies to reduce overthinking, manage negative thoughts, improve emotional regulation, and strengthen your overall well-being. We'll also discuss ways to improve communication and maintain healthy relationships while you're working through these challenges.
Health Tips
The fact that you've recognized these changes and are seeking professional help is an important first step. With the right support and consistent effort, these patterns can become much more manageable, and you can regain a greater sense of clarity, emotional balance, and confidence.
I look forward to working with you and supporting you throughout this journey.