Your mother’s behavior frequent emotional outbursts, recalling old painful memories, crying, and anger could be signs of unresolved emotional wounds, possible hormonal imbalances (due to age,
thyroid), or even early symptoms of mood or cognitive changes like depression or mild cognitive impairment, which often go unnoticed in women around menopause/post-menopause.
What you’re seeing isn’t just stubbornness it may be emotional pain she never got a chance to heal from. The solution is gentle psychological support, not forceful reasoning. Convince her to visit a mental health professional for a proper assessment. Meanwhile, listen without trying to fix everything sometimes just feeling heard reduces half the emotional burden. Therapy, even once a week, can help her release what she’s holding onto for years.