Hello, and best wishes on your journey to pregnancy. It's lovely that you're planning ahead and checking before starting anything.
Soft swelling at the anal opening with flat skin tags, and no pain or bleeding, is very commonly due to old, settled external piles or simple skin tags. They are usually harmless. Pregnancy can make them more noticeable later on, because of constipation, hormonal changes and pressure from the growing uterus. That's why it's a smart time to look after this area now.
On your question, there is no firm scientific evidence that homeopathic remedies affect conception or pregnancy. Highly diluted remedies are generally considered low-risk. Still, safety depends on the remedy, its strength and your own case, and some preparations (especially mother tinctures and very low potencies of certain plant-based substances) are best avoided when trying to conceive. So I'd always choose remedies only after a proper case-taking, with your plan to conceive in mind, and not by self-medicating.
Next Steps
A video consult would let me understand your constitution, bowel habits, diet and cycle, and plan something suitable that keeps your pregnancy plans in front. A simple in-person look from a doctor is also worthwhile once, to confirm that these are skin tags and piles and nothing else. Please get it checked sooner if you notice bleeding, pain, a lump that increases, itching that doesn't settle, or a change in bowel habit. Whichever practitioner you consult, tell them you're trying to conceive.
Health Tips
- Aim for soft, regular stools: eat fruit, vegetables, oats, soaked raisins or figs, and whole grains
- Drink 2.5 to 3 litres of water a day
- Don't strain or sit for long on the toilet, and don't ignore the urge
- Sit in a tub of lukewarm water for 10 minutes if the area feels uncomfortable
- Keep the area clean and dry, and pat dry gently after washing
- Walk daily and avoid sitting for long hours
- Start folate-rich foods now: leafy greens, dal, sprouts and citrus fruit, and talk to your doctor about preconception care
- Limit spicy food, tea and coffee, which can aggravate piles in some people
If you're worried, do book a consult and we can look at it together. Take care.