Hi. Both of you need counseling. What's your educational level. You can think of your own career. See, now a days there is huge job stress and competition. A lot of chances of losing energy. Require info on marriage process. If in laws are present discuss this with them. Age differences sometimes create barrier in couple communication.
Next Steps
Spend time in developing yourself as an independent person first. Do regular yoga, meditation, music listening ( piano, guitar), art making, video making etc. Be creative from your side. Invite friends and arrange small party at home. I am sure your husband may join.
Health Tips
During dinner time try to spend time together. Write sms every day to him and convey your feelings and thoughts through sms. Good luck