Dear human, thank you for sharing and reaching out. From what you've mentioned, it sounds like you've gone through a tough time and you have been trying to gain some clarity on your partner's behaviour.
Firstly, I appreciate you for reaching out for help for your concern. You've taken a significant step in your mental health journey. Your partner's abusive behaviour can be due to many reasons like his past trauma events, if any in his life, his personality, any negative life incidents, etc, of which only he would be aware of. Abusive behavior is not right and should not be tolerated. We cannot assume if he is changing or not, it's totally upto him. He can consult a mental health professional to analyse why he has behaved in a certain way, what can be the causes and if there are any possibilities to manage it.
Meanwhile you can consult a psychologist or a therapist, to explore your choices/options, to identify if you really want to get back to this relationship and figure a beneficial way out for yourself. Therapy would also help you to process what you've undergone in a safe and non-judgmental space.
Hope this helps :) Take care!
Answered2021-06-24 19:26:29
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