Hello dear, I can understand how overwhelming it must be for you to manage his symptoms. It seems he truly needs proper care, especially for things that may now be beyond your control. At times, it’s important to remember that their thoughts and understanding can become clouded at this stage. Please take comfort in knowing that you are doing the best you can. It might also help to speak with a therapist to process your emotions and find ways to manage your life alongside his needs. Most importantly, be gentle with yourself you are truly doing your best.

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Hi it seems to be anger issues there is lots of therapies for control anger but don’t know what is the personality of your father so without diagnosis what can say. but identify his triggers with an anger journal, use relaxation techniques like deep breathing or mindfulness, and get regular exercise. He can also take timeouts from stressful situations, communicate assertively using "I" statements, and seek professional help if his anger feels overwhelming.

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Go to a person who does EMDR therapy. This is really helpful in trauma cases

Hi The fact that he misjudges situations accusing others of speaking loudly when they are not, or repeatedly trusting outsiders despite being harmed suggests that his perceptions may not always match reality. That makes it even harder for family members, because reasoning with him often won’t work. In therapy, we would look at this not just as “anger issues,” but as a possible mix of personality traits and distorted thinking patterns that drive his behavior. The focus would not be on “changing him overnight” which may not be possible without his willingness but on equipping you and your mother with coping skills, boundary-setting strategies, and emotional protection so that you don’t internalize his treatment. Sometimes, psychoeducation for family members is more effective than directly confronting the person. Take therapy. You can connect with me on nine two six six seven two six zero six five.

Your father’s behaviour may be linked to unresolved anger issues, poor emotional regulation, possible personality traits, or even age-related cognitive/medical changes. His overtrust in outsiders, irritability with sound, and repeated financial mistakes also suggest the need for both psychological and medical evaluation.

Hi, I understand how difficult it must be for your family to cope with your father’s anger, mistrust at home, and impulsive decisions with outsiders. These behaviors — treating your mother harshly, reacting strongly to sounds, and repeatedly trusting people despite being cheated — suggest deeper emotional or psychological concerns that may need professional evaluation. It is not simply “stubbornness” but could be linked to an underlying condition.