Don't decide by yourself whether you are in depression or not .please  consult any professional and let him  decide.you get hurt very easily because you have given your control in another people's hand,you need to understand that people and circumstances will be like this only.what requires is that you should be like that every act of others from which you get hurt should reflect away from you and you are responsible for this and your other problems.what it demands is change in approach. If you need my help you can contact me online also.

Changes in behaviour, feeling and thoughts are common after traumatic event. For some these are short-lived changes, for others it can be long term effect. A person can do many things at their level that can help them cope with adevrse changes following trauma: 1) talk about traumatic incident with trustworthy and supportive person. This will help you process the incident and your feelings about incident better 2) try some relaxation exercises to reduce tensions that are common post trauma 3) improved self-care through proper diet, exercising, doing things that you like, spending time with people you like.

These look like post traumatic symptoms your facing most likely The more you run away and not talk about the incident and come in peace with it the more health issues will surface Seek a psychologist for sessions on how to get over a trauma which will help you with the social anxiety issue

Hi, you can contact me for an online appointment and we can explore this narrative together