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Abusive relationship
My relationship with my boyfriend has turned abusive. When I do any small mistake he starts abusing me with worst words. He is never ready to listen to me. What should I do? Clearly I don't want an abusive relationship.
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Any relationship is a happy one when both the partnets understand each other and share their feelings and thoughts. Try to talk to him and explain him about your feelings so that he can try to change his way of reacting on things. Try and help him understand where he is going wrong and how you both can collectively work towards making a strong and happy relationship.
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Dr. Annie Mathew
Psychiatrist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Any kind of abuse is unacceptable
In a relationship. If you are feeling unsafe please reach out to women’s helplines. I also feel you need to speak with a therapist who can help you deal with the emotional turmoil that comes with being in an abusive relationship. I would recommend reading this article -
http://www.seraniti.com/2018/01/when-love-becomes-one-sided-it-is-time-to-get-out-the-story-of-daniel-sukumar-poet-and-musician/
Please remember nothing is more important than your safety . I do not know where you are based but in Bangalore there are a few organisations that work with women in abusive relationships- Muktha, Vimochana to name a few.
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Please visit a therapist.
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Dr. Shabeeba Z Kailash
Psychiatrist
12 yrs exp
Chennai
I understand your situation. Your boyfriend seems to be suffering from adjustment problems causing interpersonal issues. His current behaviour may be due to depression, personality traits or even adhd. More clarity is needed regarding his problem to decide on severity of the condition. It is easily manageable with appropriate treatment, so that dysfunction due to the same can be reduced and your quality of life will improve. Some counselling sessions and if needed medical help might be useful for him. I would also be more than happy to help you with that if you are looking for further online assistance. Discussions will be held confidential. You can directly consult with me through Practo as needed. Online chat consultation is available.
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