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Few years back during his college days my brother has met junior girl and they developed connection as Brother Sister
My brother has met her while he was in deep depression
she used give him advice and strength and they used to talk for long hours in night.
This connection is continuing for last 8-9 years now
Now girl's parents are looking for her marriage and my brother wants me to marry her otherwise he will commit suicide
He had tried committing suicides earlier also thankfully saved him.
Taken him to Psychiatrist also treated him but no use.
I have no interest in marriage as I'm just 24 and want to first settle in life
Now I'm in state of bother
If i doesn't Marry I will loose my brother
If i marry it will be forcefull marriage.
Please looking for help 🙏🙏🙏
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This is a difficult spot for you to be in. You love and care for your brother , but this need not be at the cost of your happiness.
Like you have mentioned, about his treatment, more details would help to plan an intervention for him.
In my opinion this situation can be worked around with counselling for you and Psychotherapy for your brother.
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Find a mental health counsellor for you that can help you step by step of to work around this situation.
Also, your brother needs psychotherapy as he is experiencing intense separation anxiety as this girl may go away from him. He can be helped with emotion management and regulation, which will require regular sessions.
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1. Practice mindfulness while have conversation with him.
2. Do not leave him unattended for a long period of time if you anticipate suicidal thoughts or tendency.
3. Keep suicidal helpline numbers accessible or on his emergency numbers.
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Plz connect on practo
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Hi,It is illegal for someone to force you to marry when you are not ready.It.usually involves, mental abusive, emotional blackmail etc.
You should have him treated. At this time he is not thinking clearly because of his mental illness.
You have to convince him for treatment.
He needs a proper diagnosis and treatment.
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Consult a psychologist .You may need counseling sessions because you are under a lot of stress .
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You and your brother will require counselling sessions.
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Consult a psychologist
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Ms. Manasi Tambe
Counselling Psychologist
2 yrs exp
Pune
Please consult on practo
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Ms. Merlyn M Fernandes
Counselling Psychologist
16 yrs exp
South Goa
Hi, your brother seems to have built an emotional dependence on the girl who was there for him in his darkest hour. It is unhealthy to stop the girl from moving on with her life because he wants the emotional supply to continue and therefore he is now insisting that you get married to the girl.
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Your said your brother has attempted suicide in the past. He needs to meet a psychologist especially someone specialising in DBT. If he is actively suicidal, you may consider hospitalization and psychiatric care.
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No one can force you to get married against your will. Seek help for your brother as the earliest.
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Consult a psychological Counselor for a therapy to gea clarity and understanding about yourself and about your future life..
It is definitely a sensitive issue, still you can handle it better with a professional support..
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Mr. Sandeep Kumar
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12 yrs exp
Chandigarh
Connect with mental health care professional for your brother and you have to be Patience and kindly take regular session for him, so as per his mental status examination proper therapeutic guidance along with counseling could be given.
This thing is manageable don't worry you need to correct his problem, don't support his problem.
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