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Today i hit my 4 year boy as he was not
I am feeling guilty as i slapped my 4 year old boy because he was not studying. Still crying why i hit him...
What should i do to avoid this situation.
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Seek counseling sessions to seek help to improve the level of tolerance when your responsibility increases.
Parents need to raise the bar.
Consult counseling psychologist asap to resolve the same.
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We all loose our cool once in a while but aggression only sets a wrong role model.i can understand the guilt you are feeling right now.please practice some relaxation techniques. further it needs to be assessed where is this aggressive behavior coming from .Also learning some anger management techniques will help you.
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Whats troubling you?
When our inner self is not at peace it results out in lashing other people
Work on the stress you are facing
Learn ways to manage your anger too
Consult with me or any psychologist for therapy and counseling online
All the best
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Ms. Komal Singh Parihar
Psychologist
7 yrs exp
Navi Mumbai
Hello there
I can understand what you might be going through. Parenting is not an easy task. But you need to know how to be patient with it. I can understand that you might be feeling confused and hard regarding what you should do with the situation, but loosing temper here is not a solution.
Don't worry, consult a good therapist or a psychologist as soon as possible.
You can also contact me and I will try to help you with the problem. Let's discuss your issues in detail so that you can get towards your solutions.
Take care. Stay safe and strong. Everything will be alright. You got this!
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
As parents, we don't want it to happen.
Also, we do not have the right anyone, even as our own children, to Beat..
Observe, whether you are loosing your control, Or, the child needs control by bring to be more Assertive...
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You can seek a professional support to understand yourself better to handle situations like this much better..
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Ms. Mohana Priya G
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8 yrs exp
Bangalore
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Acceptances and tolerance skills should be developed.
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Accept the situation don't try to change behavior instantly.
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Ms. Smriti
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Whatever you have done is wrong because we alwayz tend too loose control on those who are week from ud and can be suppressed ..plz take counseling from me .my session rates are very much affordable for everyone.
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
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13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi.. The whole purpose of becoming a parent is to learn life yet again from the perspective of the creator and not the creation.
Your child is a separate life and has a way of his own to learn and do things. Your job is just to provide him a necessary environment and a better example by living a life you want him to live.
You are his role model. He will imitate you no matter what you exhibit, so try to be a good example.
Hitting your child in a fit of anger/frustration is teaching your child to do the same. If you wish him to learn to be patient, then demonstrate patience. Guilt is an entirely your creation, the kid has nothing to do with it. He will learn what he will see around him.
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