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Stressed and Confused in life
A schizo brother, great parents but feels sad for everything because of children some times with small reasons and donot consider our views and I'm 26 had a bad past. All my relatives knew about it as the person is my relative only.
My parents are helpless now as they r not able to setup their responsibilities in time . They are worried about my marriage and my brother now. I have got a lot of confusion and struggle to believe a new stranger in my life as accept him as a partner.
I like to help my parents atleast financially as we have a only house that too in loans my dad is approx 53-54 who will retire in 4-5yrs. I have frnd of mine who loves me like mad and Wants to own me at any cost (a sudden twist in my life) he helped me to forget my past to move on with my life (50 percent I'm better now)
what I have to do now ?? Think about the parents prestige who points their finger if I marry an other caste guy? Or have an arranged Marge and unable to help parents. Pls some one help me.
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Hi, I do get on what grounds you are in. Firstly, are you interested from your end in the guy you loves like mad. Secondly, if so then you can make him understand the situation and get married when you have financial stable fro your end. But if you still are not clear in taking a decision, you can contact me through Practo online Consultation.
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Hi, I understand that you care about your parents. Your concern is you don’t want to disappoint them. You could think about what you want to do, whether you want to marry the person you like or go by what your parents want for you. I appreciate the fact that you want to support your parents. You could explain to your parents about what makes you happy. You don’t have to feel lonely and helpless you can consult with a psychologist and share your feelings.
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You can consult me for Counseling session.
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Mr. Fr Dr John Zachariah
Counselling Psychologist
9 yrs exp
Ernakulam
Take psychotherapy
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we provide the same
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Appreciate you for having come forward to seek a professional support..
Life has not ended by all those events which had happened over the years.
You can still get married and support your family members..
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I suggest you to consult a psychological Counselor to get some clarity on your thoughts..
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For a detailed discussion and understanding you can reach me by using the link given below :-
https://prac.to/hema-sampath-psychologist-dir
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