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Since the past few days, my mind is getting overly obsessed with sexual thoughts -I try to distract myself, but still, my mind goes towards them n I end up fapping 4-5 times a day I find it embarrassing to write here, but it all started some days ago when I joined this telegram channel which post videos of bollywoodmale and female models being exploited by fashion designers or other influential people - as a bi I started getting turn on badly by seeing those videos What is the solution to stop my mind craving for such kind of content and reduce the overflowing sexual thoughts in mind, which right now seem to be completely out of my control?
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It seems to be a psychosexual obsession leading to uncontrollable masturbation and sexual thoughts. It needs to be treated asap otherwise it may get complicated and can affect your personal and sexual life. It can be well treated with counseling sessions and homeopathic medicine effectively and without any side effects. It needs to be treated in a holistic approach for complete recovery. You need an expert Sexologist who is a good homeopathic physician and psychologist.
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Hello Practo User, use homoeopathic medications for your problem  to get Instant and effective results.Its Curable, no need to worry about. Homoeopathic medicines plays Excellent role to treat Such problems in a hollistic way without any side effect.I suggest you to message me your complete history in private chat with all reports & details & Consult Online through Practo. I will guide you for holistic & effective Results with homoeopathy ! Take care !! Best Regards:)
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Take proper counselling to clear ur doubt.. To get rid of this issue
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What you are describing sounds less like a problem with your sexuality and more like a sudden trigger-driven cycle of sexual urges and compulsive behaviour. Sexual thoughts themselves are normal, and being bisexual does not make these thoughts abnormal. The concern is that the thoughts have become difficult to control and you are masturbating 4–5 times daily despite wanting to stop. Compulsive sexual behaviour can involve repeated urges, pornography/content use and masturbation that feel difficult to control and cause distress. The Telegram channel appears to have become a strong trigger. In particular, content depicting people being exploited or intimate material shared without consent is not healthy content to continue consuming; it can reinforce the arousal–urge–masturbation cycle. You do not need to feel ashamed about having been aroused by something you encountered—the important thing is what you choose to do from here.
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The most important first step is to leave/block the Telegram channel and remove access to the videos rather than trying to repeatedly fight the thoughts after they appear. Make your phone less accessible during your vulnerable times, use content-blocking tools, and avoid searching for similar material. When an urge appears, don't argue with the thought or try desperately to force it away. Notice it—"I'm having a sexual urge right now"—delay acting on it for 10–15 minutes, get up, change your environment and engage in another activity. CBT-based approaches, mindfulness and acceptance-based therapy can help people learn to manage intrusive thoughts and compulsive sexual urges. If this continues to feel out of control, particularly if it is interfering with sleep, work or relationships, consult us for better treatment and personalised guidance, you may connect with us at 9 3 1 5 6 6 1 5 6 5.
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For the next 2–3 weeks, focus on breaking the trigger rather than achieving immediate “zero masturbation.” Keep your phone away from the bed, exercise daily, maintain a regular sleep schedule and stay occupied during the times when urges are strongest. If you masturbate, don't respond with guilt or shame—the goal is progressively regaining control, not punishing yourself. Intrusive sexual thoughts can become stronger when you desperately try to suppress them; learning to notice them without automatically acting on them is generally more useful. If the sexual thoughts are accompanied by very little sleep, unusually high energy, impulsive/risky behaviour or a sudden dramatic change in mood, seek a psychiatric assessment, because those features can indicate something beyond a simple habit pattern. Thank you
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